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It is no secret that the dildo is one of the most widely used sex toys in the world, and for a very good reason. The reason for their simplicity is that they are simple. Nothing needs to be worried about in terms of difficulty of use. There are so many different types of flowers (literal or figurative) that can be enjoyed in a variety of ways; a great deal of delight is always possible. The use of a dildo for many people does not go much further than holding it and moving it back and forth from one hand to the other. There is another way of having fun that is even more intense than simple riding - learning how to actually ride a dildo. You to accomplish this goal will need to choose the right type of dildo. Suction cup models are, in most cases, the ones people will use. The other thing to do in order to get the 'true' riding experience is improving some form of riding technique; different riding positions should all be at least partially explored. Other sex toys can be seen as extensions of this macho riding you eventually wish to master. Our easy-to-follow guide is meant to help take you through this process. Riding (of any and all forms) will always be a personal journey, but one that we all can and should enjoy. Starting that adventure is the beginning of true pleasure. Riding a Suction Cup Dildo There is no doubt that using a dildo with a suction cup is the easiest way to ride one. Dildos can be attached to almost any smooth surface - anything and everything that utilizes a simple suction cup. A wooden floor, table, or even a mirror (to spice it up) would all work perfectly for this method. The flexible placement of this kind of toy allows for numerous different sex positions to be explored. The 'perfect' suction cup position is what you're looking for; moving the body back and forth continuously is the follow up to that initial placement. Full or near full stimulation is possible. Once the right position is found, the simple back and forth motion is all that is needed. Scratching only the very surface of what suction cup dildos can do. Hands free technology of some sort is a real plus; focusing on the body (and all that it can provide) is the end goal. Personal pleasure, to me at least, is the true reward. Best Positions for Riding a Dildo You can try out all sorts of different positions when you ride your dildo instead of just using it in the more 'normal' way. Almost any limitation is removed; imagination is the only true boundary! These are some of the more popular positions to start with: Cowgirl: Placing the dildo on the floor is the simple option, riding it being as close to a real cowgirl position as possible. Reverse Cowgirl: Essentially the same concept, backwards riding being the secondary form of stimulation. G-spots or P-spots would most likely receive that extra all encompassing stimulation. Chair Cowgirl: A chair attached to the dildo gives you much more room to ride, faster and more freely. The actual position the dildo takes can give that 'standing up' type feeling. Kneeling Doggy Style: Getting the right placement of the dildo is key here, hands and knees style you get the full doggy experience. Standing Doggy Style: Raising the dildo slightly and keeping that standing position works well for me at least. Other positions are and will always be possible. Dildos (to me at least) are a partnerless pleasure to be explored. Put it where it belongs and enjoy. Dildo Riding Techniques to Maximize Pleasure It is pretty easy to ride a dildo; simply operating it is that simple. The real question then becomes, how do you make the most of your learning process in order to maximize some form of pleasure? The following are a few easy ways you can try to get that smoother, more pleasant process going: Use Lube: Performing any kind of anal play calls for lube. Even vaginal penetration benefits from at least some type of lube - inserting and subsequently riding the dildo should be as smooth as possible. Experiment With Positions: Riding a dildo properly requires a certain amount of time spent experimenting; getting stuck in one position is the opposite of ideal. The near-constant feeling of being 'amazed' can happen to anyone at least once. Choose The Right Dildo To Ride: Which dildo you 'should' ride is a near impossible question to answer. Trying out various options is the best path to finding what works for you. Most people prefer longer dildos, easier to ride as they are, but pushing that length too far can lead to painful rides. A thin girth (width) is generally preferred when choosing a dildo (animal or otherwise). Extremely large dildos are hard to ride, physically and mentally. Carefully consider all the information previously given. Flexibility in a dildo is a large part of 'ease of riding'. Experiment with textures and all round designs! Ribbed, ridged, fantasy style dildos all have their place. Angles and/or depths of riding are all part of the experience. Dildo riding, to me at least, is a true pleasure to explore. Technique Benefit Why It Works Generous Lube Smoother Ride & Increased Comfort Prevents discomfort and friction by reducing friction. Position Variety Discover New Sensations Changing positions changes penetration angles. Angle & Depth Play Targeted Stimulation Locates pleasure zones with precision such as G-spots or P-spots. Rhythm Changes Builds Intensity You can elicit explosive orgasms by varying your speed.   How to Ride Non-Suction Dildos? You may be able to ride your regular dildo using some form of suction, but what if you don't have one? Is it still possible to 'ride' that same regular one? There are plenty of other ways to ride various sex toys, the method previously described being just one of them. To some extent more difficult forms of riding are still achievable. I have found one of the easiest ways to do this to simply hold the dildo in the position you want and then 'ride away' from it. No doubt it's not ideal, limitations on all forms of movement will occur, going hard won't be possible, but for the most part normal use will be very similar. Here are some creative solutions: Pillow Power: Holding the dildo in place is the key part; placing it between two objects (folded pillow, two pillows, any soft supported enclosure) will help keep your head up when sleeping. Substitutes for a dildo itself are not the end goal, movement and/or position are what you're trying to achieve. Keeping the dildo from moving is important. Harness Helper: Other dildos can be made rideable through a simple strap-on harness - attaching it to a saddle or chair is perfect. Grinding against the near constant surface of a large pillow or chair is all part of the experience. Turning the harness inside out completely removes the 'riding' aspect you may have wanted, but to me at least it still feels good. DIY Suction: A more complex solution I think you'll like: turn your existing dildo into a suction type. Strong glue or small sticky pads can be used to attach the two together. Follow all the above advice and enjoy riding! Riding a Dildo With a Partner You don't have to ride a dildo by yourself! Dildo riding can be enjoyed by the entire family. Trying a wide range of 'things' during sex with your partner is completely possible; both of you having a good time is the end goal. One of the more common forms of oral sex occurs during a typical sexual encounter. Placing a dildo on the floor and riding up and down it is a perfect example of this - the pleasure your partner enjoys from your actions can be shared, at least partially, while you yourself enjoy the more direct physical stimulation. A dildo delves into the concept of some form of double penetration. Thinking one simple penetration may not satisfy all your needs, using a dildo opens up that very specific type of exploration. Riding cowgirl style would be one way to achieve this; anal penetration from your partner while riding, is still a very much desired outcome. There are many ways to learn how to ride a dildo; simple, easy (to at least begin with) and fun are the primary reasons I suggest it. Personal trainers are a near perfect solution if you already own one, or want to. If not, our collection of dildos is waiting for you to find that 'ideal' one you've been looking for. Personal or otherwise, try it out.

There has been a lot of excitement in your life since you started using sex toys on a more regular basis. Having said that, now comes the time for the 'cleanup'. Would it really be necessary to do so? Cleaning is a part of owning these dildos after all. Cleaning your dildo specifically may not be one of the most glamorous things to perform, but it is an incredibly important one. Never forget to clean them each and every time you plan on using them; interesting textures make this all the more crucial. Warm, soapy water is pretty much like cleaning your teeth! Once the actual cleaning is completed, proper storage is the final step - cool and dry is what you want. Good working condition for future (near infinite) adventures is the end result you are aiming for. How Often Should You Clean Your Dildos? Determining how often you need to clean your dildos is very simple. In fact, one of the easiest things to remember. Before and after every single use, cleaning the dildo is the rule I follow. Cleaning them 'before' using them may seem like a bit much, but dust, various forms of dirt, and to an extent bacteria all accumulate on the surfaces of the devices between uses. A dildo (being the most common example I have seen at least) coming into contact with any sort of external matter is perfect fodder for this. Putting something inside your body is a personal act, clean or not - you want that level of purity; near perfect cleaning is the end goal. Full body or partial, it just needs to be cleaned. What Can You Use to Wash Your Dildo? It is fortunate that you can easily clean dildos at home; one of the simplest things you can do. Going about this process itself is relatively simple. Mainly two methods are followed: Warm, soapy water. A dedicated sex toy cleanser. These products can be applied either with a clean cloth or spray bottle. As soon as you have finished making the dildo, allowing it to air dry is perfect, or using paper towels to pat it down. Completely dry is the end goal - mold of any sort must not be allowed to form inside the device. Know Your Dildo Materials A variety of different materials you can choose from when making a dildo (if you already own one) need to be kept in mind. Common types, more specialized ones (squirting being a prime example, anal if preferred, etc.), all require some form of cleaning know-how. Silicone One of the more prevalent materials. Non-porous cleaning is not an issue. The best silicone dildos even fit in the dishwasher, quick and easy cleaning. An excuse never was needed. Intact packaging should be kept, melted dildo messes are to be avoided. Storing silicone dildos: do not let them touch each other. Physical or chemical reactions between dildos (or any part of the dildo) can and will happen over time. Melting is a part of the degradation of all materials. Prevent it if you can. Glass I understand that most, if not all, of the glass dildos on the market are not actually made of glass; Pyrex is the common material used. We can wash these dishes in the dishwasher because essentially they are made from the same (near identical) material as many oven dishes that are specifically labeled as cleanable in said dishwasher. Cleaning glass diddles themselves comes down to one thing: temperature. Planning on handling them at all, I would recommend using an oven mitt - holding heat well is part of their 'glass' nature, so direct contact should be avoided if possible. Metal Stainless or not, metal is to me at least as good as glass. Avoiding the dishwasher completely is the best course of action if you're unsure what to do. Handling them after some form of hot water interaction is when the heat becomes an issue. Very hot to the touch is a real concern, and again, care must be taken. Hard Plastics, Cyberskin, and Elastomer Jelly There is one thing that all three of these materials have in common: they are porous. The very tiny pores all over their surface (almost like little holes) make them extremely fragile. Bacteria having become trapped inside the 'surface' of the dildo is a real possibility. Cleaning them is a important task; extra care must be taken with this process. There are two main ways to clean the house, and both still work great. The dishwasher however, is definitely not a good option. Melting of these dildos is a much higher chance than with other more common dildos. Eventually bacteria will build up within that surface as aging continues. Keeping a dildo working properly means at some point replacing it. Checking the dildo thoroughly before use is something you should always do. Replacing a bed mattress (to some small extent) is a parallel situation - discolored or worn out is a sign of old age. Material Porous/Non-Porous Dishwasher Safe? Key Cleaning Tip Silicone Non-Porous Often (Check instructions) Store separately from other silicone dildos. Glass/Pyrex Non-Porous Yes Can retain heat; handle with care when hot. Stainless Steel Non-Porous Yes Can retain heat; handle with care when hot. Plastics/Jelly Porous No Clean thoroughly; use a condom to extend life. Some types of dildos can have their life prolonged by constant condom use. What About Other Materials? More unusual materials, wood being the prime example, and various forms of ceramic can be used to make dildos. Less common indeed, but if you own one of these, read the instructions (they will always tell you how to clean it properly). Contacting the manufacturer to ask about care of the dildo is a good idea. I think we all just need to clean our dildos. Simple, easy to manage, and to me at least - a small pleasure to see a well kept dildo.

Do you have any experience with sex toys? Have you actually played with one before? A dildo, specifically, is likely something you have tried at least once in your life. The smaller pleasure rods that are so commonly found in all sorts of collections are near universal; a guide on how to use one would then seem almost unnecessary to many people. You may know where a dildo goes, but knowing that simple physical act does not equal well using it. Knowledge of 'where' is only the first step. Like any sex toy, a dildo is highly versatile - various ways of using it are all part of maximizing what the toy has to offer. The 'using' process itself includes different techniques, some form of position (physical or more abstractly mental), trying new things with it; pushing all possible boundaries of use is a large part of the entire experience. Exploring every single thing your dildos can offer is important. Expert or not, beginning or near-endless: using a dildo (to me at least) will always be a personal, ever changing experience. What's the Big Deal About Dildos? Consider the scenario in which you have just arrived on Earth from a faraway galaxy. It has been some time since you last watched. Common among these "hu-men" is the practice of spending their evenings inserting these little rods into their bodies. Why is this happening? The first sex toy you ever encounter is here, my space-traveling friend. These incredible devices were designed for one specific purpose: pure and simple pleasure. Whether simple or otherwise fantastical, almost any shape or size of these tools can be found. A humble dildo is the simplest form. Design does not have to resemble a penis; realistic textures (small or large) can be achieved. The penises themselves are not solely human. Dog cocks, horse cocks, near-infinite fantasy shaped dildos (dragons being the prime example) all have their valid uses. Defining a dildo does not depend on shape. All materials - metal, silicone, plastic, glass, etc. - are susceptible to change. Future human (and non-human) pleasure will involve vibrations, temperature, at least partially ejaculating dildos. Dildos, to me, are and will always be a beautiful, near perfectly simple means of that all encompassing pleasure. As a simple toy can produce such near all encompassing pleasure, our alien observers would be surprised to hear us say we ever had "normal" sex. So, How Do You Use a Dildo? There must be a lot of options currently available when it comes to using a dildo. It's not! I'm glad to tell you this. Dildos are among the easiest sex toys. Initiating that specific form of sexual activity is one of their primary strengths. Knowing how to use a penis (to at least some small degree) translates directly to knowing how to use a dildo. Easy use is, to me, the most positive aspect of them. Simple, repeated use of any and all dildos I've tried has only further solidified this point. Let’s begin with the basic steps: You should begin by ensuring that your dildo is clean and in good condition. Refraining from using it if it has been damaged, or subjected to near constant poor wear and tear, is important. Maintaining a clean genital area is paramount; various types of bacteria introduced through use can lead to small but potentially serious health issues. Get in the mood! Taking a few minutes to relax is key. The actual use of the dildo will be much more convenient when some form of arousal has set in. More enjoyable usage follows from this. Reading a steamy romance novel, watching a movie with a hot actor, or simple self touch to turn on are all ways to accomplish this. Use Lubrication! Any sex toy (dildos being no exception) benefits from it. How wet you become doesn't negate the need - applying it to yourself and/or the dildo is encouraged. Anal dildos specifically see a huge improvement in all aspects of use through proper lubrication. Try out different positions! Missionary style is not the only, or even best, way to use a dildo. The whole point of using one is to experiment - new 'greatnesses' of feeling will be discovered (personal to each individual). A partner may also become interested in participating. Begin slowly! Shoving the whole thing in at once and rapidly thrusting is not the way to go. Small portions of the tip, working deeper over time, is ideal. Accelerating later on is fine, but the very first movements should be as gentle as possible. The first step is to put a dildo in your body and move it around. Simple or not, I believe we all want to enjoy it. Enjoying a dildo (to me at least) is a part of being human. By focusing on the right spots, you can increase that enjoyment. G-spots are considered a favorite spot for many women. Using vibrators is not necessary! Dildos can and will provide all forms of specific stimulation; the simple satisfaction of striking a particular area is part of the experience itself. To hit the G-spot, changing the angle of the camera is the easiest method. During vaginal penetration, a large portion of the sensation comes from the near constant pressure (whatever is applying it) against the more internal parts of the clitoris. The depths of the G-spot lie holding this true nature of the phenomenon. Applying some form of pressure and/or rubbing against it is what leads to a pleasurable response. This kind of precise stimulation is difficult to achieve with a penis - two factors being angles and the 'attachment' to another individual's body. A dildo removes both of those problems. Free movement, any and all angles, is to me the purest form of self-pleasure. Those who are not satisfied with G-spots can try deep penetration. If you have a man with exceptional physical attributes, this may not be a new concept to you. Some dildos are so large that even the biggest guy cannot compete with them. Length and girth make them look like monsters. Providing experiences (of all types) through these is possible; cervix and/or anal stretching, fullness, etc. are all attainable. Additionally, the forbidden fruit... the near-dangerous zone... people do not venture to this point. Here we go. Anal stimulation is a real pleasure to me, and to many others I believe. Dildos are a great and very personal way of exploring all of it. Anal or otherwise, we all need to at least partially, enjoy ourselves. In most cases, anal stimulation will not be as exciting as vaginal stimulation, but exploring it is still a worthwhile endeavor. Women, as they become more and more comfortable with any form of penetration (visual or physical), begin to combine it in every possible way. A double penetration, for example, is considered near perfect by many; the simple act of reaching that point brings a certain type of pleasure, followed by all out further exploration. Women are not the only ones who benefit from Dildos. Pleasure poles specifically for men will see much fun being had in exploring their nether regions. The G-spot analog is the P-spot (prostate) if I recall correctly, located deep within the male pelvic area. Stimulating it pure and simple without some sort of device is near impossible. It is fortunately possible to experience that deep pleasure mentioned above. The majority of people, male or female, will always find at least something to enjoy. Stimulation - anal or otherwise - is a universal need. Deep penetration (of whatever medium) is to a large part a part of being human. We all want to, or at least seek, that all encompassing pleasure. Aftercare for You and Your Dildos Most of you are probably familiar with the joys of decompressing following a sexual experience. Making that next experience even better is a near-perfect side effect of spending some time on aftercare. You can do aftercare by talking about what you liked and what you didn't like. Playing alone? Thinking about it for a few minutes counts as aftercare. During this process thinking about 'how you'll do things differently next time' is part of it. In spite of seeming like a small matter, sexual experiences are extremely vulnerable for us. Processing those feelings (subconscious or otherwise) is beneficial to all aspects of mental health. After the mental aftercare has been completed, the physical follow-up can begin. Cleaning up is now the thing to do. We advise lubrication and thorough washing of the body afterwards. Similar to your dildo, it needs to be cleaned. Warm, soapy water and a cloth should be sufficient; a more specific cleaning agent for sex toys if possible. Completely drying the dildo (and all parts of it) is important. Moisture left behind leads to mold, unpleasant surprises all too often. Cool, dry storage follows. Where Do You Start Your Various Dildos? How can you maximize your pleasure by selecting the right dildo? Despite how simple this question may seem, the answer is by no means straightforward. As a company, we do not focus on a single 'ideal' product. Cases of G-spot stimulation being the most common example, shorter and more girthed dildos are often required. Deeper pleasure spots (the A-spot coming to mind) call for greater length. Individual preference is what truly determines which dildo will be selected - generic pleasure simply does not exist. Complete beginners we find recommend something simple, not too wide, shorter if possible. Mastering the use of at least one dildo opens up near infinite (to them at least) selection options. Examples of various dildos and the subsequent pleasures they can bring are something we look forward to describing in future posts. Realistic Dildos Many people get put off by sex toys because they look "weird." That's where realistic dildos come in. Designed to look just like the real thing, veins and all! The feel is also designed to at least partially mimic real skin. If an experience as close to sex as possible with toys is what you're after, a realistic dildo will not let you down. Curved Dildos The most common version of a dildo you might imagine is the simple straight rod. With these you will need to find the 'right' angle to hit either a G spot or P spot. We are now long past the times when all sex toys were made the same. Curved dildos feature some form of slight curve; helping to target those previously unreachably deep spots. Gently curved to more drastically curved, experimenting is the only way to truly find what your body likes. Vibrating Dildos Rather than settling for one toy, why not get a variety of them? Vibrating dildos have something quite magical about them. Combining the best of both worlds (static and vibrating) into one package, almost every possible desire one can have for a dildo is covered. Changing up the entire experience is simple; pattern and intensity levels can be adjusted to personal preference. Some people just cannot handle a regular dildo - vibrating being that much better, step by step, as a progression from it. Suction Cup Dildos There are a number of things that can be frustrating about using any kind of dildo, manual holding being one of them. Using a form of suction cup dildo is what I refer to as the more 'authentic' experience. Attaching to some sort of flat surface allows all sorts of different positions to be tried, riding the dildo being the near perfect fullness you seek. My personal joy comes from this type of riding, continuous or otherwise; you will at least share in that joy.

The squishy nature of dildos is somewhat reminiscent of real human tissue. Because of this, they appeal to both people who are just beginning to use soft dildos and those who have used them for a longer period of time. We'll talk about comfort. There's an incredibly inviting aspect to these soft dildos. A really comfy couch after a long day comes to mind; perfect in every way. Handling this 'squishy friend' should present no problems. The near complete removal of any form of hurt or simple physical discomfort is what I find so appealing. Letting go and concentrating on the positive is the ideal state. Can they be used in various ways? Yes! The squishy dildo itself is ready to go with the flow - any position you choose to try will work. As a dancer, having something flexible and (to a point) partner-like is near ideal. The visual component should not be forgotten either. Seeing many of these more realistic looking soft dildos will often lead you to look twice. Playing with them (partner or solo) increases the overall enjoyment; real or otherwise, the near human appearance adds to it. I would like to add one last thing. Looking good and feeling comfortable are only part of the equation. Precision in at least some form of performance is what I believe these soft dildos can offer. Angles can be adjusted, positions changed, and/or followed through to a certain point. Sweet spots (physical or otherwise) are all part of a new, and to me at least, beautifully human experience of pleasure. Experiment and enjoy. Are They Good for Beginners? It is recommended that you use soft dildos if you are a beginner. There is a certain gentleness in their approach. Starting penetration can be begun at your own pace; a relaxed and near stress-free environment is what beginners need. Smaller sizes are also available. Finding this level of usefulness is very important to many beginners. Finally, trying to combine both (soft dildo and some form of external stimulating device) is a plus. Completing an experience in this way creates that all encompassing feel. What to Think About Before You Buy a Soft Dildo? Getting a soft dildo should not be a rushed event. Become at least somewhat of an 'expert' in the field of forensics (personal satisfaction being the end goal). Safe, satisfying, easy to use - these are all factors you want to consider. Going through a simple checklist would be helpful. The first thing to talk about is composition. This is a extremely important point. Properly working material must be non-porous to the body. Porous materials trap bacteria, effective or not, and are just plain bad for the body. Avoiding any and all porous materials is the best course of action. Your body will thank you; a clean time is what you are after. Soft dildo material should always be checked, safety first. We'll talk about firmness now. I like soft dildos. Too soft is not good, but firmness (to me at least) should not be totally surrendering, just yielding. Softness and/or firmness of a soft dildo is a part of its identity to me. Healthy and/or pleasurable times can be had with either. Is it important to you that your hands remain free, so that you can engage in other more creative activities? This is exactly why you should look for a model equipped with some form of suction cup base if that is what you need. There are a number of features within this game that are completely game-changing for solo players. The ability to stick to nearly any flat surface means most, if not all, applications will work. The bathroom, the kitchen - whatever room you feel the 'mood' to go to - can turn into your personal playground; going somewhere specific for pleasure is something you can plan around easily. Keeping Things Hygienic There is nothing you can negotiate on when it comes to hygiene. No matter what sex soft dildo you have. Keeping your pleasure safe and satisfying is of utmost importance; making a 'wise investment' in that pleasure is a small but necessary part of aftercare. Choosing a material that is both body safe and non-porous is the first step you will need to take. Easy to clean soft dildos are much safer, all round more enjoyable, than those all too commonly used porous soft dildos - harboring various types of bacteria is near impossible to fully remove. Warm water is good for rinsing the soft dildo. Anything visible will be washed away. All surfaces should be cleaned, mild soap or a proper soft dildo cleaner being preferred. Textured areas and/or small crevices must be looked at carefully! Gently scrub it. A soft cloth or not, take good care of it. Lasting pleasure (of any kind) is worth it. In order to ensure that it is clean, rinse it again under running water. Use a towel that won't leave any lint behind when you pat your soft dildo dry. Letting the item completely dry in the open air is also a possibility. We don't want to ruin the 'fun' of bacteria by destroying their home, moisture being the perfect playground for said bacteria. Now you might be wondering, "Toy cleaner or just soap and water-which one wins?" Both are good options. Easy to clean soft dildos with toy cleaners. Mild soap and water often gives you the same (if not better) results. It's really up to you; clean it properly though. It's easy to get infected if proper cleaning doesn't take place. Damaging the soft dildo itself is also a concern. Keeping those risks away is what we all want. Cleaning after playing is a small but effective step towards that end. Regular cleaning for frequent players should be scheduled. Storage and Maintenance For Your Soft Dildos I would like to suggest storage and all round maintenance be treated as a VIP treatment for your pleasure buddies. Children (and adults) both receive the same level of care - we all want our soft dildos to last. Getting the most out of a dildo, or any pleasure soft dildo, requires some sort of special bag or container. Always having it 'ready to play' means constant, small time cleaning and/or maintenance. If you don't want all your soft dildos in one drawer, keep them separate. Dildos in particular should never be stored together. Material and/or chemical reactions are just not worth the end result of a 'bad' or uncleaned soft dildo. Keep your soft dildos clean and happy! Store them somewhere cool and dry. Stay away from the sun's betraying rays. Very bad for your soft dildo if it's exposed to any form of direct sunlight. Think of it as sunscreen for your favorite soft dildos. Making it last a long time is important, so keeping them out of that kind of exposure is key. Before you play, make the soft dildo safe to start with. Damage of some sort should be checked - a small tear or near crack can and will grow bigger. Pleasure comes second, safety first. Don't forget lint and hair. Nothing kills the mood like a fuzzy dildo. Rinsing it or using a true lint free cloth will fix this relatively easily. Looking great and 'ready to go' is important. I would also like to point out knowing when to say goodbye. Regular checking of the soft dildo (personal or otherwise) is necessary. Retiring a soft dildo is a form of care; old sentimental soft dildos should not be held onto. New soft dildos are and will always be available. Achieving Orgasms by Using Soft Dildos Now we have established the more important, near personal, aspects of dildos. Soft dildos in particular are capable of many different types of pleasure and/or orgasms. Softness is only one part of the equation. Sending someone over to O-town is what we all want, and all soft dildos (to me at least) are a part of that. Mind blowing G-spot and/or P-spot type orgasms are the end result of all of it. Soft or hard, dildos are worth it. You will be glad to know that a soft dildo is your trusted companion if you happen to be looking for that nearly elusive G-spot that seems so difficult to locate. There is a trick to finding one; a curve of some sort carries the near-perfect message, "I have got your back." Gentle, persistent pressure (with a soft curved dildo if possible) can make both your G-spot and to a point any P-spot, feel very good. Now, just remember to keep it chill. Relaxing is what leads to better orgasms. Breathing, taking small amounts of time - your soft dildo should be the guide to that bliss. And a pro tip I like to use: mix up the positions and/or movements. A "meh" can absolutely become a "wow." Twisting, tilting, shimmying until you hit that exact sweet spot is perfectly fine. Small shifts are all part of the journey; almost there to fully experiencing an orgasm is still a win for me. Exploring Anal Play of Soft Dildos As a result of performing anal play, there is a whole new level of exploration (pleasure being one of the end goals we all seek). This type of play works very well with soft and flexible dildos. Ensuring a safe and/or comfortable experience is something I believe to be an important aspect of my job. To begin with, it is important to know that the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does. Regardless of how big or small a lube cartridge is, filling it with enough lube is always the priority. Water based products are preferred in my books, checking compatibility with the soft dildo itself being the second step. It is sincere to say that I feel good about all of this because the material is itself forgiving. What I alluded to earlier, soft dildos minimize nearly all 'harsh' words associated with anal play; feeling (and/or seeing) the small squish of a soft dildo is a near constant delight. Many, if not all, benefits are received by both body and myself. Starting small is the best way to go if you're new to it and don't know what to expect. A modest sized soft dildo would be ideal. Taking time to do this properly is key; racing against the clock should never be the goal. Larger sizes can and will be tried, gradually, as a form of personal growth. In addition to the above, I would like to give you a small pro tip: soft dildos are great for preparing yourself for more intense sessions and using any larger soft dildo thereafter. This perhaps is what they are best used for - stretching and in some way relaxing the surrounding muscles. The method of working up to that 'ideal' size or state you want to be in can be achieved through constant, small time investments with these soft dildos. Patience (of all forms) is the key to achieving near any goal; anal play specifically requires it. Smooth, successful play will always have at least some element of patience built into it.

The perfect dildo has been found, you have enjoyed some truly amazing adventures with it, and now it comes time for the least glamorous-but most important-part of all this fun: cleanup. You shouldn't just clean your dildos so they look nice; proper cleaning is what will allow them to last as long as possible. Safety for future uses is a primary concern. To understand why this is a good practice, think about reusing a dinner plate - washing it is the only logical step taken before reuse. Your dildos are no different. A simple form of self-care requires that each and every use be followed by at least some kind of cleaning. A blissful, healthy (physical and mental) experience for both you and your partner depends on it. The following guide will walk you through all the specific steps needed to clean your dildos. Material doesn't matter; whatever the dildo is made from, the principles apply. Different types of dildos will be covered, products to use at each stage, storage methods, and just about every small detail that comes with the 'post-use' cleaning process. Getting to work on cleaning is the last, and I believe essential, part of the adventure. Why Cleaning Your Dildos is a Must The body is an incredible, complex ecosystem. Before we get into the "how," let's discuss the "why." Unclean dildos disrupt this delicate balance; yeast infections, various forms of bacterial vaginosis, and simple irritations are all potential outcomes. Washing is important for these specific reasons: Health and Hygiene: Bacteria, bodily fluids, and to a large extent lubricant residue are removed during cleaning. Following this simple step prevents infection - intimate relationships (of any sort) benefit from at least some form of constant, small scale hygiene. Toy Longevity: Proper cleaning and all associated storage is what will prevent future damage to the dildo. Certain materials break down if not well cared for; a good, regular cleaning routine is near impossible to overestimate as a part of maintaining the 'investment' you make in a dildo. Better Experiences: The cleaner the dildo, the happier it will be! Fully immersing oneself into a moment with a dildo (or any object) is only possible when the physical aspects of using it are taken care of. Worrying about 'freshness' removes a large part of the anxiety from the experience. Your Cleaning Toolkit: What You'll Need A few simple steps are required to prepare your dildos for cleaning. Almost everything you need already exists within your home. Warm Water: A good foundation for all cleaning. Soap or Toy Cleaner: One or the other. Mild, unscented (preferably) antibacterial soap is ideal. Dedicated sex toy cleaners are formulated for both effectiveness and near perfect safety to body and toy. Soft Cloth: Completely drying your dildo is the final touch - lint free is best. How to Clean Dildos by Material? As dildos are made of different materials, there is a certain way to clean them depending on the material they are made of. There are several types of viruses, and we will break them down by the most common ones. Silicone Dildos Among all the dildos available in the market today, silicone is without a doubt the MVP. In addition to being body-safe, non-porous (meaning that it doesn't harbor bacteria in tiny holes) and presenting a wonderful, skin-like feel, it is also non-toxic. Cleaning Steps: Rinse It: If there are any lubricants or fluids on the dildo, wash it under warm water to remove them. Lather Up: The dildo cleaner or mild, antibacterial soap should be applied with a good amount of force. Make a lather by working it up and make sure you cover the entire surface, paying close attention to any textures or crevices on the surface. Rinse Again: It is recommended that you rinse the dildo thoroughly with warm water until all of the soap and cleaner have been removed. Ensure that there are no residues left behind after you have cleaned the surface. Dry Completely: You can either let it air dry on a clean surface or you can pat it dry thoroughly with a clean, lint-free cloth. It is important to make sure that the item is completely dry before storing it. Pro Tip: It is only recommended that silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone dildos. When these two silicones react, the surface of the dildo can become gummy, and this will cause the dildo's surface to begin to break down over time. All of your silicone friends will appreciate it if you stick to a water-based lube. Glass, Metal, and Stone Dildos In addition to being elegant, firm, and great for temperature play, these materials are also incredibly durable. Moreover, they are also nonporous, which means that cleaning them is definitely not a problem. Cleaning Steps: Wash and Rinse: You can wash it with warm water and mild soap or a dildo cleaner. Because these materials are so durable, you can wash them more vigorously. Boil for a Deep Clean (Optional): The biggest advantage of glass dildos as well as solid metal dildos or even stone dildos is that they can be sterilized before being used again. Depending on how deep you would like to clean them, you may want to place them in a pot of boiling water for 3-5 minutes. Remove them carefully with tongs and make sure that they have cooled down completely before handling them. Dishwasher Safe? In fact, some dildos, whether they are made of glass or metal, can be put in the dishwasher on the top rack. Depending on the manufacturer's instructions, this can be a quick and easy way to clean your carpets and keep them looking great for a long time. Dry Thoroughly: Before storing them, make sure they are completely dry and that they are cleaned with a soft cloth to prevent water spots. Jelly and Rubber Dildos The cost of jelly and rubber dildos generally tends to be lower, but they tend to be porous materials. There are microscopic holes in them where bacteria can be able to hide, so they are very vulnerable to bacteria. As a result, they require a bit more attention, so they are best to keep them to yourself, and they should not be shared between partners. Cleaning Steps: Wash Immediately: The fact that these dildos should be washed immediately after use makes them extra important. Warm water should be used along with mild, antibacterial soap or a cleaning solution for dildos. Be Gentle: If you want to keep the material in good condition, avoid harsh chemicals and boiling it, as these may damage it. Dry, Dry, Dry: When storing a dildo, it is important to ensure that it is completely dry before storing it. There is a possibility that bacterial growth can be encouraged by any leftover moisture. Consider a Condom: In order to ensure the safety of your child while playing with porous dildos and to make cleanup easier, it would be a good idea to place a condom over them during play. How to Storing Your Dildos? It is not only important how you store your dildos, but also how you clean them; lasting as long as possible is the end goal. Proper storage of the devices ensures a certain form of protection - dust, small damage, and various types of cross-contamination being the main concerns. Separate Storage: Each dildo should be stored separately. Different materials touching one another can and will sometimes react and degrade. Jelly or rubber dildos in particular should never be stored touching any form of silicone. A Toy Bag or Box: Keeping your dildos in some sort of dedicated silk, cotton, or velvet bag / storage box protects them from both dust and direct sunlight. Discreet tucking away is a large part of the beauty of good storage. Avoid Plastic Bags: Ziploc type plastic is to be completely eliminated. Trapped moisture is one thing plastics can do, poor reactions with certain dildo materials are the other. Cool and Dry Storage: A cool, dry place (drawer preferred, closet if necessary) is where the collection should go. Sunlight must be removed from the equation. Checklist for Your Quick Cleaning Having a hard time managing your workload? These steps will help: After each use, washing is non-negotiable. All rules must be followed. Warm water and either a specific toy cleaner or mild unscented soap on the surfaces is best. Rinse, shake well, air dry. Soap residue on skin is the last thing anyone wants. Completely dry surfaces are the end result of all of the above. Clothes and dildos both need to be or at least appear, clean. Make sure you store the items correctly. Keeping the bags or boxes in some sort of cool, dark place is ideal for as long as possible. Conclusion: Taking care of your dildos doesn't take much time; getting used to the 'routine' of it is almost second nature. Cleaning an object (a simple give and take of TLC if you will) is only one part of it. Investing into your own pleasure, various forms of wellbeing and to a point health, is what giving those dildos TLC truly represents. Washing up after having fun is part of the process - have a great time, don't stress over the small things, but do take care of them.

Intimacy is a journey of discovery that must be shared with a partner. Introducing sex toys, specifically something like a dildo, can be a fantastic way to explore various new avenues of pleasure. The chances are you're already on the verge of unlocking some sort of experience - fun, deeply connecting (physical and otherwise), and simply 'cool' to have attempted it in the bedroom at least once. Adding a dildo to a relationship is not just about the object itself; desires are being explored, constant small to medium sized sensory experiences are introduced, and in every possible way learning about your partner's body (physically and mentally) is part of the process. Playfulness and support are key elements. This guide will walk you through all the information needed to use Dildos for two. We as a group will cover the more 'technical' aspects, benefits, children's play (if applicable), safety, and all forms of communication that go along with it. Shared pleasure is the end goal, and I hope this introduction opens you up to that very human, intimate, and beautifully simple act of connecting. Why Bring a Dildo into Partner Play? Incorporating a dildo can feel like a big step, but the rewards are well worth it. The simple benefit of dildos is that they feel good! Beyond that, several unique advantages are available for couples. Discover New Sensations: A dildo provides different types of pressure, various textures, and all around forms of stimulation that hands or genitals alone cannot. Variety of these aspects will awaken previously unattended nerve endings; more intense blended orgasms are a direct result. Enhance Communication: Successfully using a dildo together requires some (near constant) open communication. What feels good, what you want to try, small and large boundaries - all of these things will be discussed. This level of honesty strengthens the emotional intimacy just as much as the physical connection. A Tool for Exploration: Using a dildo is a fantastic way to learn about both yourself and your partner. Pinpointing the 'best' kind of stimulation, guiding a partner to those spots, and all that follows (each person being their own agent of pleasure) is near perfect. Bridge the Orgasm Gap: Partners often take different paths to orgasm. Consistent clitoral or G-spot type stimulation via a dildo, while engaging in other all encompassing forms of intimacy, helps push at least one partner (if not both) to that peak. Getting Started: Choosing Your First Couple's Dildo So many options exist, picking the right one can be overwhelming. Material, size, and to a point shape, are all important considerations. Material matters The material of your dildo affects its feel, safety, and how you clean it. Here are the most common body-safe choices: Silicone: This is the 'gold standard' for a reason. Non-porous (harboring bacteria is not an option), easy to clean, and possessing that near-skin-like smooth feel. Soft and squishy or firm depending on the specific design are both possible. Remember: only water-based lubricant should be used with any silicone dildo, silicone lube itself will degrade the material. Glass: Elegant and beautiful, glass dildos fall into the same non-porous category. Easy cleaning is a plus. Temperature play is where they truly shine - warming them in hot water or cooling them briefly in the fridge creates that all too desirable new sensation. Durable borosilicate glass is the best choice if possible. Stone or Metal: Similar to glass, these materials are all non-porous. Direct stimulation is often what is sought after; weight and a more 'firm' feel are additional positives. Finding the Right Size and Shape Size-wise, starting smaller is generally a good idea. Larger dildos can always be explored later, comfort and pure fun being the end goals of the experience. Classic Dildos: Phallic shaped (to put it simply) and suitable for either vaginal or anal penetration. A flared base is a small but important safety feature to look for. Double Ended: Mutual pleasure in mind, these allow both partners to at least partially share a penetration experience. Flexibility of some form is the norm. Harness Compatible (strap on style): Dildos that attach to a harness, or any kind of penetrative sex the two of you wish to explore, are a beautiful and very real part of modern sexuality. A Guide to Partner Play Positions and Ideas Now for the fun part! Communication is key here. Talk with your partner beforehand about what both of you are excited to try. The Giver and Receiver One of the simplest ways to start is having one partner use the dildo on the other. Focusing completely on your partner's pleasure is the primary goal. How to do it: Have one partner lie back comfortably. The other can then use the dildo to explore various areas. Clitoral stimulation, G-spot type stimulation, or just a more general massage (thighs/stomach if desired) are all good options. Paying attention to any and all reactions they give you is important. Attentive, focused pleasuring is something beautiful to practice in this manner. Side-by-Side Stimulation This is a wonderfully intimate position; closeness is easily achieved while using a dildo. How to do it: Lie side-by-side (spooning if you will). The partner in the back holds the dildo and stimulates the front partner. Hands remain free for caressing, kissing, and simple holding; the dildo itself almost becomes a natural extension of all that touch. Mutual Pleasure with a Double Dildo Both partners wanting some form of simultaneous penetration will find this to be ideal. How to do it: Find a comfortable position - face to face being one, with legs wrapped around each other. Generous lubrication of dildo and partners is a must. A rocking motion together will create a near perfect shared rhythm of pleasure. Strap-On Play for Every Couple. Strap-on harnesses are for everyone! How to do it: The wearing partner secures the harness. Receiving can be on their back, stomach, or all fours. Speed and/or depth of penetration can always be negotiated. Strap-on play (to me at least) is a truly unique and/or empowering type of intimacy. Penetrative or not, I believe we all need to explore it. Essential Tips for a Great Experience Here are a few tips to keep in mind in order to make all of your adventures as safe and enjoyable as possible. Lube is Your Best Friend: Seriously, don't skip this step! You won't regret it. Several benefits come from using some form of lubricant - reducing friction being the primary one, increased pleasure being a near constant, and various types of discomfort prevented. A liberal amount should be used, water-based is preferred, silicone dildos specifically require this type of care. Talk, Talk, and Talk Some More: Take the time to check in with one another before, during, and after the event. Phrases such as "How do you feel about that?" or simple adjustments like 'a bit more pressure please' will ensure everyone feels (at least temporarily) heard, respected, and safe. Keep It Clean: Hygiene is one of the most important aspects of health. After every use of your dildo follow the manufacturer's instructions for cleaning. Silicone, glass, or stone dildos all benefit from being washed; warm water and a dedicated dildo cleaner (or very gentle unscented soap) will do the trick. Start Slow: There's no rush, go at your own pace. Exploring different sensations and/or positions should be the focus. Connecting people together through pleasure is what the experience is all about - a race to some 'final' state of satisfaction is not the point. Conclusion: Introducing a dildo into a shared intimate life is an act of trust, small and large scale curiosity, and pure fun. Deepening that connection is and will always be, to me at least, a part of what we all want to achieve. Getting to know each other, and all that follows, is a beautiful, ever changing adventure.

You're ready to find your perfect match, right? The process of choosing your first dildo, or indeed any subsequent one, is incredibly exciting. So many options exist; figuring out where to start is the more difficult part. How would it feel if finding that perfect dildo was easy? Two things matter: size and some form of shape. Achieving a near perfect balance between these two is the key to near constant pleasure and all round comfort. This guide details every possible piece of information you could need when choosing both size and (more specific) shape - body type based desires being a large part of what will be covered. Finding the 'best' dildo for yourself is the end goal. Our selections are listed below; taking what is described from the guide, we hope to help narrow down the perfect fit for you. Finding Your Perfect Dildo Size: It's All About You In the case of dildos, what is considered "perfect" is purely a matter of personal taste. The right size does not come from seeing it portrayed in a movie, or someone else's preferred liking of it; feeling amazing is the end goal. Let's look at the specific measurements that are important to this process and how finding a sort of comfort zone using them can lead you to that perfect size. Length: Tip to base is the length you're usually concerned with. Insertable length if possible should be the focus - penetration being the end use. This is the more 'important' length measurement. Girth (Diameter/Circumference): Measured around the thickest part, girth defines a good deal of that full feeling people seek. A straight across diameter measurement is all that is needed to describe it properly. Fullness, again, is a large part of the perfect experience. How to Choose Your Starting Size? Starting with a size that feels approachable, not intimidating, is a great way to get used to a dildo. More comfort will allow you to eventually go up a size if needed. It is recommended that when learning to use a dildo you choose one with some form of insertable length - 4 to 6 inches being ideal - and a girth somewhere in the 3-4.5 inch range (1-1.5" diameter if you will). Substantial though this may seem, this size provides a near perfect pleasant sensation; overwhelming feelings are completely avoided. If you are unsure what you will enjoy, what do you do? Using your fingers is the best initial guide. Feeding your senses by running a finger, then two, then three inside the appropriate area will give you at least a rough idea. Personal comfort and/or pleasure can be established through this simple process. Ready to Go Big Dildo? Large dildos are incredibly rewarding for more experienced users (fullness and/or stretching being prime examples). Thick and/or long dildos open up many different types of deep stimulation. Listening to your body, proper lubrication and all that goes with it - slow, methodical tries are still the best path to taking that next step. A journey is a part of the experience. Your Guide to Dildo Size: Here, i would like to introduce dildo size from some aspects, including description, ideal users, and user reviews from our customers, so that you have a more true knowledge. Size/Shape Description Ideal For User Reviews Small Dildo (3-5" insertable) What if you could start your journey with total comfort? These dildos are approachable and less intimidating; gentle exploration and simple use are specifically designed to be the end goal. Beginners, people with some form of sensitivity, or anyone who wants more clitoral/external stimulation rather than (near) deep penetration. "Perfect first toy! Wasn't at all overwhelming to use. Figuring out what I liked took almost no time. Comfortable, easy to handle all around." Medium Dildo (5-7" insertable) The popular 'just right' size. A satisfying feeling of fullness and some form of sufficient length for internal stimulation; not too extreme in any way. A true all-rounder. A wide range of users, confident beginners up to more experienced players. Solo and/or partner play both benefit from this versatile choice. "This is my go-to size. The specific amounts of fullness and near perfect length hit all the smaller to more prominent 'spots' I look for. Incredible satisfaction is the end result!" Large Dildo (7"+ insertable) Want to experience impressive depth and some form of stretching? These dildos are specifically designed for those who crave a more substantial, filling sensation. Deep G-spot or cervical type stimulation is the primary focus. Experienced users will know what I'm talking about - fullness and length are things they personally enjoy. Exploring all aspects of pure pleasure is what this is meant for. "Wow! If you love feeling completely full, this is it. Depth and near constant girth give it that 'game changing' quality I was looking for. Complete and simple satisfaction."

Have you ever wondered how you can enhance your solo or partnered play to achieve a greater sense of freedom and creativity? Wouldn't it be amazing to at least partially access new positions, intense sensations - touching nothing if possible? A game-changing suction cup dildo by this description, the suction cup dildo is built to provide that very specific type of ultimate flexibility; mind blowing pleasure being one of its primary goals. Our guide will cover all the information you need to know about these amazing suction cup dildos. Exploring the more 'hard to put into words' benefits suction cup dildos have to offer is part of the process. Safe use will be discussed, and what truly makes them special (to both the user and observer) will come to light throughout the full scope of the guide. What Makes a Suction Cup Dildo Unique? In its simplest form, a suction cup dildo has a strong, flared base that sticks securely to smooth non-porous surfaces. Think of it as your favorite suction cup dildo with a secret weapon. The actual 'simple yet brilliant' feature of this design is what sets it apart; a true hands-free powerhouse is achieved. This design innovation allows you to hold the suction cup dildo itself - holding it is almost a secondary concern. Control of depth, speed, and to a point angle of penetration can be easily managed. Moving your body against a shower wall, the floor, some sort of sturdy chair, or headboard; all forms of penetration are within reach. Benefits of Hands-Free Play For Using a Suction Cup Dildo: In fact, the suction cup dildo has become such an essential part of so many dildo collections that you can't tell them apart. Why is that? Three main benefits are associated with this method: freedom, a certain form of creativity, and (to me at least) greater levels of pure pleasure. Total Hands-Free Freedom This, in my opinion, is the number one advantage the company offers. Securing the suction cup dildo to some sort of surface allows you to free up your hands; exploring other parts of your body using said suction cup dildo is the direct result. One hand being 'occupied' makes it difficult to achieve that all encompassing, powerful full-body orgasm. Clitoris, nipples, any and all erogenous zones - having one hand on them or using them for stimulation will always be secondary to what your other hand can do when completely free. Exploring New Positions You might never have thought it possible to be in a position where using a suction cup dildo would be the ideal experience. Riding it, grinding against it, backing up onto it - body weight and small to medium sized movements are what control the experience. Discovering new (to you) angles of G-spot and/or P-spot stimulation is and will always be, to me, a near perfect end result of hands free play. Perfect for Partner Play Playing with these suction cup dildos is something you can do with your partner. Enjoying the suction cup dildo itself is one thing, but the accompanying kisses, caresses, and various other forms of stimulation the other person can provide makes it all the more well-rounded. Getting creative together, exploring different 'dynamics' of pleasure sharing is a large part of what makes this so great. Several suction cup dildos at least partially offer harness compatibility; having a partner to play with them is the ideal scenario. Fulfilling, Intense Sensations Using your own body to control the near constant motion of the camera is what leads to the truly satisfying intensity previously mentioned. Strong core and/or leg muscles can be put to use pushing and/or grinding against the suction cup dildo. The more 'immersive' the experience becomes, the better (to me at least) a powerful orgasm can be achieved. Realism and/or intensity are both deeply fulfilling. Safety and Cleaning: Your Pleasure Priorities We always take your safety and various forms of well-being into consideration when planning an event. Keeping your suction cup dildo clean is something that should be easy to do; taking it along for what will be many more 'adventures' is only enhanced by this care. Cleaning Your Suction Cup Dildo Wash Before and After: Before any use and immediately after, washing the suction cup dildos is the first line of defense. Soap and Water: Warm water with either a mild unscented soap or some form of dedicated toy cleaner will suffice. The entire suction cup dildo - shaft, base, and that small suction cup - must be cleaned. Thorough Rinsing: All soap residue needs to be rinsed off, irritation being the primary concern. Complete Drying: Patting it down with a clean lint free cloth is preferred, air drying works as well. Completely dry storage is key to preventing (near) constant bacterial growth. Storing Your Suction cup Dildos A clean dry place, away from direct sunlight and all extreme temperatures, is the ideal storage. Organized small or large boxes/bags work well. Silicone dildos in particular benefit from being stored separately if possible. How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo? Have you ever thought about giving it a try? Using a suction cup dildo is very simple; taking a few precautions, however, will ensure that your experience is as good and safe as possible. Step 1: Find the Perfect Surface Having a great experience is dependent on at least one of the more important factors - a strong grip. A flat, smooth surface (non-porous if possible) must be found. Many great options exist: Tiled shower walls or floors Glass / mirrors Laminate flooring Sturdy furniture (a stool or chair would work well) Placing the suction cup on any form of porous or textured surface (carpet, unsealed wood, drywall being prime examples) will prevent the proper seal from forming. Secure attachment is the end goal. Step 2: Secure Your Suction Cup Dildos Before attaching the actual suction cup dildos, cleaning and drying both the suction cup itself and whatever base it sits upon is necessary. Firm pressing of the base against the previously mentioned surface pushes out any small amounts of trapped air. Gently tugging on it after attachment will let you know if it held. Small to moderate moisture on the rim of the cup (if that doesn't seem to work, just rub it with your finger) can and often does, create a near perfect seal. Step 3: Lube, Lube, and More Lube! Using some form of lubricant is not an option, it is absolutely necessary for an enjoyable and comfortable play experience. Generous amounts of water-based lubricant should be applied both to your own body and the suction cup dildo specifically; getting the 'best' results depends on this. Providing near perfect glide is the end goal, water based lube is recommended for this reason. Silicone dildos can be and will be damaged by more harsh or oil based lubes, a pleasant gliding sensation is what you are after. Step 4: Enjoy the Ride Once everything is set up, playing can begin. Listening to your body is key, going at your own personal pace when 'getting on' the suction cup dildo is important. Limits of any sort should not be placed on what you do; hips and body movement are all part of the experience. Angles, speeds, depths... find out for yourself what feels good. Conclusion: There is more to the suction cup dildo than just being a dildo; exploring sexuality and in some ways empowering oneself is what it allows you to do. Amazingly much freedom, creativity, and various forms of pure pleasure can be obtained from it - alone or with a partner. Buying a good suction cup dildo and following (at least some) of the more simple tips mentioned in this article will lead to a safe, thrilling, deeply satisfying experience. Enjoying that experience is the end goal.

You've come to the right place! Stepping into the world of dildos is a true journey of self-discovery. Clicking your way to better sex is an exciting prospect. Buying that very first dildo online can feel slightly overwhelming, but worrying about it is completely unnecessary. Everything needed to know - materials, various sizes, finding a more or less 'trustworthy' store - all finds its home within this guide. Fun and in every way a small form of empowerment is what I hope this process brings. Better sex (to all involved) is the end goal. Understanding Dildo Materials: What's Best for You? Several factors can affect the overall quality of your dildo material being one of them. Safety, sensation, and subsequent care all play into what makes a "good" dildo. I would like to break down the more common material options into a few simple categories. Silicone: The Gold Standard There is a very good reason silicone is the most popular choice; food packaging is a near perfect example of high quality silicone used. FDA-approved silicone specifically for that purpose is non-porous, bacteria cannot be harbored within it (other forms of plastic being the opposite of this). Hypoallergenic, phthalate free, smooth and silky to touch are all positive attributes often associated with this material. Why It's Great: Extremely safe, easy cleaning, durability, and to a point temperature control are all things you can count on. Warming or cooling a home is one application, adjusting the firmness level of a mattress being another. Keep In Mind: Water based lubricants only. Long term use of any form of silicone based lubricant will and should not be encouraged as degrading the material is a real concern. Glass: Elegant and Hygienic In addition to being beautiful and firm, glass dildos also have the advantage of being extremely hygienic. Made from non-porous borosilicate glass (similar to Pyrex), they are durable; the near perfect non-porous quality allows for safe use across a wide range of temperatures. Why It's Great: Easily sterilizable and truly non-porous, this material is the ideal choice. Any type of lubricant can be used - restricted only by personal preference. Temperature play is perfect with glass; running it under warm water or chilling it will change the entire experience you receive. Keep In Mind: Their durability does not mean immunity to breaking (hard surface drops being the primary concern). Complete rigidity is another factor some may find unsuitable. Metal: Sleek and Substantial Providing that firm, weighty, sleek experience stainless steel dildos offer is what makes them so alluring. The metal itself has near perfect non-porous properties, food storage grade if you will, germs never take hold. Why It's Great: No metal parts to break, all around easy cleaning, every form of lubricant works. Weight and fullness (to use a mild term) is a desired end result of using metal dildos. Keep in Mind: There are many benefits to using metal; rigidity being one of them, and the near perfect ability to conduct heat (hot or cold being a direct result of that). Awareness of how hot/cold the metal gets should always be considered. What to Avoid: Jelly and PVC Often dildos are made from some form of plastic, PVC specifically being a common example. Brightly colored, squishy dildo fall into this category. Cheaper is not a bad thing, but porous materials and associated phthalates (a type of harmful chemical) are something to at least partially avoid. Proper cleaning of porous dildos is easier, bacteria being trapped within the 'squishiness' is a concern. Health and safety related choices should be made; silicone, glass, or metal if possible, are all better options. Finding Your Perfect Size and Shape As much as size matters, the concept of "perfect" really depends on your personal preference and comfort; your body type being a large part of that. Let's Talk About Size When starting out with a dildo, we recommend choosing one that is either average or slightly smaller than average size. Beginners should aim for length somewhere in the two to four inch range, and a circumference similar to that. Finding this 'comfort zone' is the ideal goal. Overwhelm of any sort should be avoided; expanding to larger sizes later on is perfectly fine and expected. A Shape for Every Desire Every Dildo has some form of different shape, design, and/or function - all leading to a specific type of (at least partially) desired pleasure. Realistic Dildos: Mimicking the near perfect look and feel of a penis, veins and a more defined head are common details. Classic choice if those are the values you place on a dildo. G-Spot specific dildos: Upwardly curved tips are the near constant feature of this type, internal orgasms being the end result they are designed to produce. Fantasy Dildos: Inspired by mythical creatures or more abstract forms of art, these feature various unique textures, knots, and all around swirls - new and exciting sensations are the end goal. Suction Cup Dildos: A strong base that sticks to some sort of flat surface (a shower wall, floor, etc.) makes this type particularly useful; hands free play is the primary benefit they provide. So, you can also choose to buy a suction cup dildo according to your needs. How would you feel if you could find a shape to suit every single desire you had? What specific stimulation are you looking for? Experience being the end result, I'm sure you have at least partial answers to these questions. Tell me what you want. Targeted pressure? Some form of near or fullness? Narrowing down a choice of dildos (of any type) will require you to at least attempt to answer these things. Full or partial satisfaction is still a valid end point. Safety First: Playing with Peace of Mind You should take care of yourself while you're having fun. Remembering a few safety tips will lead to a great experience; playing mindlessly is not the ideal state. Lubricant is Your Best Friend Water-based lubricants should always be used liberally, especially with silicone dildos. Reduction of friction through lubrication increases all forms of pleasure, and preventing any sort of discomfort or tearing is a near perfect outcome. There is no true alternative to it - using it is an absolute necessity! Clean Your Dildos Properly Keeping your dildo (or any sex toys) clean is one of the more important aspects of overall hygiene. A toy cleaner made for that purpose is ideal, mild unscented soap will do in a pinch. Thorough rinsing, air drying (or any kind of careful drying) is key; storing a wet toy is the last thing you want to do. Proper Storage Don't store in direct sunlight. Clean and dry storage is best. A small bag or box works well. Silicone dildos in particular should not touch each other - physical contact over time can and will break down the material. Tips for Buying a Dildo Online Online shopping provides you with access to a wide variety of products, all within the comfort of your own home. The following tips will assist you in doing this safely and smartly. Look for Reputable Stores Dildos should be body-safe; looking for these specific types of products is the first step. Reviews, detailed product descriptions, and a clear return policy are all indicators of a more 'professional' looking website. Here, i would like to recommed you come to our realdildo shop to have a look. Buying is not a must. Read the Product Descriptions Carefully Do not overlook any details in making your decision. The description itself should at least mention the material(s) used, some form of dimensions (length being the most important, width a close second), and any other special characteristics. Pictures can and will mislead you, facts are what you need. Check Customer Reviews Reading reviews from actual buyers is extremely valuable. Size, 'feel' (a very personal but important factor) and near complete quality assessments can all be gathered from them. Patterns in the more positive or negative remarks will help guide you. Your Secret, Our Priority: Discreet Shipping Feeling private? Most reputable online stores understand this. Plain, unmarked packaging is the norm. Check the website's policy on it if you must - but to all intents and purposes, your (and every buyer's) secret is protected. Don't Be Afraid to Ask for Help Contacting the customer service department of many online stores is an option if you have any questions regarding your purchase. Hesitating to reach out is something I personally try not to do; any and all questions should be answered. They are able to assist you in finding the 'perfect' product (to at least somewhat meet your needs), with specific recommendations being a plus. Conclusion: Your first dildo is that initial great step towards discovering what makes you happy. Quality materials, the right size/shape (however small or large), and a more or less trustworthy seller realdildo all come into play when making said decision. Years down the line you will thank yourself for it I'm sure. Come and find your favorite dildo here.

The boundaries between reality and imagination are becoming more porous with the development of realistic dildo technology. Contrasting crude, ungainly models, our new realistic dildos pay very close attention to numerous nuances - body type, color, texture, and simply the 'look' of something real. Simulating near actual-life sexual encounters is one of their primary purposes. Ethical and moral discussions surrounding realistic dildos stem directly from these similarities to said real life. Some people think realistic dildos are a great way for girls to express themselves sexually; others see the more negative aspects of objectification. Feminists, at least some of them, argue that realistic dildos are insufficient in making any form of true sexual consent, men's aggression against women being a direct (or at least partially) justified outcome. How true are these assertions? Learning about realistic sex role-play immersion - ass inserts being the most common example - and all that follows from it is what I am personally interested in. This blog will explore every possible ethical and near-philosophical question that arises. Why do so many people feel uncomfortable using them? The Goals of Women: People are objectified when seen as things, not sentient beings with all the small and large scale feelings, thoughts, and actions they possess. Realistic dildos normalize this to some degree; anti-social views of all people (women being the primary target) are a byproduct. Consistent usage of the realistic dildos encourages the very concept of sexual partners being objectified, dehumanized or otherwise reduced to a pre-determined set of behaviors and/or feelings of 'desire'. Males may and do objectify women. Skeptics of the feminist movement at least want to see women free from all or part of that objectification. Realistic dildos, to me at least, are a part of the culture of objectification we all wish to move past. Women (and all of us) are and always will be, to some degree, human. In a similar vein, there are radical feminists who believe that realistic dildos are an expression of a purely male society. Testosterone-filled phalluses inhabit the realms of power - society, academia, and various forms of industry. Negative objectification is at play here; phalluses are built by men to appease some form of inherent male inevitability, perpetuating all sorts of harmful societal practices, collective women's harm being one of them. Sexual conduct, even within the legally recognized context of marriage, requires the agreement of both partners. Engaging in sexual relations using life-size dildos removes this aspect of consent completely. Owners of these realistic sex toys see them as personal property, giving themselves (and often others) the near absolute freedom to act on whatever they choose. Arguing that more and more realistic dildo designs are normalizing violence against women and/or forced prostitution is a valid concern - the previously mentioned objectifying concepts are reinforced. From what angle may we see the usage of forced dildos? A word about realistic dildos: they're inanimate. We must always utilize realistic dildos in a manner that honors some small or large degree of human dignity and autonomy; safe and harmless conduits are what we want them to be. Reinforcing the negative societal assumptions about women (and men) is not the end result we desire. What are some healthy ways to use real dildos? Even if realistic dildos aren't 'genuine', you should still not handle them in a way that causes discomfort to yourself or others. When using a realistic dildo, it is important to at least consider other people's tastes. Your spouse may be willing to use it, but do not force them. Real or imagined, a realistic technology is just a tool to us all - and to some degree, to society, a real or partial experience of love and/or connection can be (and should be) a part of our lives. Realistic or not, we all need to be free to use realistic dildos, and to be human. Last Remarks No one can dispute the fact that compelled realistic dildos, when discussing the ethical implications of their use, are not inherently detrimental to society.  In the society, realistic dildos are considered to have social relevance due to the moral and ethical problems that are produced around them due to their social function, which is mainly behind the social significance of these objects.  Realistic dildos are actual hand puppets whose use can be used to level the playing field between the sexes due to their ability to channel human desires in a manner that can level social playing fields between the sexes.

More people are learning to be at peace with others and their identity via Deven Green. People with fetishes and LGBTs needs must be acknowledged. We don't feel embarrassed talking about sex devices in public; having sex is a fundamental human function, eating and sleeping being side by side companions. Scratching that particular itch, discovering more of our bodies is possible through sex toys. As a result more practical dildophony has been permitted to develop - an accelerated, near cost efficient form of it. Today's ultra realistic dildos, looking as close to the 'real thing' as humanly possible, have assisted many lonely guys through the long night. (3) Prep Your Realistic Dildo With These - you're fresh to having a realistic sex toy, and don't you forget it: read, absorb, learn and prepare yourself. Extra pleasure will follow, a small but all round strengthened relationship with said ultra realistic dildo is the end goal. Brain Prep: 4th, Modern Models Are VERY Realistic Ok, I lied a tiny bit: some dimensions are indeed very realistic; digital versions of this sort of thing do a hell of a job mimicking real dildo sex. Automation, thrusting, all the smaller more personal vibrations - everything we want from a physical experience can be (to a point) duplicated. A lifelike dildo cannot and should not change shape to respond to you organically, physically or emotionally. Openly homosexual or not, try to at least have real, infrequent but all the same practical expectations of what a cheap (to you) realistic dildo can do. Realism is and always will be, a form of love. After all this time, realistic dildos are still a great way of spicing up our sex lives. Mimicking the human body down to a near fine art, a more genuine sex experience is what they provide. Adding an 'extra topping' to a trio with them is a perfect example of this. Full-Body Scrub Ensuring that after each play, some form of appropriate clean up is done on the realistic dildo. New dildos in particular should be cleaned; pulling out a 'new' dildo from its packaging should not be taken for granted. Thorough washing is recommended, production and shipping cleanliness was most likely not the focus. The manufacturing process itself involves constant small and large scale handling, cross contamination being one of the more pressing concerns. Disinfecting the OUTSIDE of the packaging (the very first thing you do upon receiving a shipment) is the minimum standard of care. The cleaning kit that comes with most realistic dildos should be used and all directions followed to the letter. Awesomely, cleaning solutions for these toys are specifically made to be antimicrobial and safe for the various materials the dildos are made from. Household style or all purpose cleaning will destroy these toys and/or compromise the very real, and to me at least, beautifully simple pleasure they provide. 01/59 Gather the right lube 99-7 When you're having sex with a dick-like dildo, getting the right lube is important. If you're using what would be considered a "realistic" dildo, an enjoyable form of lube is desired; real women don't lubricate themselves. Figuring out what a realistic dildo is made of can assist in deciding which lube to choose. You shouldn't use the same lube for silicone and TPE dildos. Water based lubes are your best friend in either case; non-toxic, great performance, easy to clean up afterwards, and will not harm the more or less pure silicone or TPE. Unless the proper lube is used, the toy will be ruined. Don't use realistic dildos (silicone, oil, or both): Is the lubricant I use the right one? Silicone-based Lubricants: Degradation and subsequent stickiness are the primary concerns. Below are the best fluids we are sure won't lead to a quick wear down of your TPE realistic dildos: What NOT To Use On Your TPE Realistic Dildos For TPE specifically: Oil based - sticky and tearing the material. Silicone as mentioned above: safer in many ways, but to our knowledge at least temporarily damages TPEs. Wear and tear is still a concern. If oil or silicone based lubricants are used, or even partials of either, TPE will always be a compromise. Final Thoughts   This is one of the keys to enjoying a truly life-like dildo; more rewarding overall, a satisfying experience being the end goal. Managing disappointment and the subsequent 'fading' from it, I strongly believe consumers need to have some form of realistic expectation set for themselves (1) What the realistic goal should be, and (2) What any potential meaning will attach itself to a successful intervention. The tightly inserted dildo itself will need complete cleaning - all over, inside and out - to remain a healthy sexually stimulating environment. Using the correct lubricant, a perfectly comfortable, enjoyable sexual experience should be possible for both parties. Doing these smaller 'things' will lead to a better time playing with the dildo; getting the most out of it is the end result they are looking for. Keeping the sex toy in better (long term) condition is another positive side effect of all of the above.

The new Octopus Tentacle Dildo is turning adult gadgets completely inside out with a completely new design concept; changing the very way you have sex! The combination of external untamed beauty and an internal technology rationality is realized through geometric biomechanical design; varied stimulation methods acting upon different contents of soft tissue, all guided by some form of novel pattern drafting. It transcends every previous adult product you have ever seen, bringing a true sexual experience into your life. Inspired by marine organisms, intimacy itself is both the complicated mesh of modern individual relations, and that almost archaic honouring we give to nature. Lethal allure of biomorphic forms: sex and the sublime blue as a projection of desire into, and eventual enigmatization by, 'the deep' ocean. The "crush" people fell from the octopus's tentacle phallus is this reminder - our shared, unconscious bestial legacy that humans continually project and fantasize about. Symbolism of base authority The Octopus Those big power/big brains are as strange as possible; octopuses get all the strength (and I suppose all the beauty) from being completely animal, spending their whole being in seawater. One moment sporadic, the next fully torquilsh at their own mothereyes, making faces they only half understand. Tentacles translate a biological thing into a near physical sensation. Rhythmic contracting, humanoid vacuum arms and every possible curving shape - mastering nature (to at least partial success) through control, is what the user craves. Sweet or not, entanglement is and always will be, a part of us. The Beauty of Contemporary Cthulhu One hilarious parody of Lovecraft’s system of writing (called "marketing") invents its own illicit aesthetics by subverting the sacred iconography of tentacles. Somehow, by not borrowing the human body of the cliché sex toy, these non-humanoid toys create such a safe space that your wildest thoughts can flourish. The 2023 Adult Consumer Survey noted that approximately 27% of tentacle gadget buyers admitted buying their tentacle 'influenced by fantasy culture'. [Sensor Extension with Interactive Features and Real Time Capabilities] Unlike regular dildos, octopus tentacles are often segmented; a more twisted appearance is the desired end result. Tentacle Toys' star product PeneTracT being the prime example - an 8 segment masturbatory control unit. During the associated research for comparison, similar device tensegrity was found in the artificial actuator, tentacle specific forms; we at least believed using the tentacle as an actuator would be better, programming it to in some way imitate marine predators, constant changes to stimulation rhythm being the end goal. (Eleven different patterns, wave like writhing and all forms of intermittence, were observed at the population level.) Second, the true rise of sensory technology: size is no longer the primary concern by DSexual, Octopus' talo has pushed material tech, power systems and to a point interface design far beyond what was previously thought possible. Bionic Materials: A Sense of Touch for The Future Gradient hardness silicone allows the same tentacle to switch from a near perfect realistic sucker (Shore A 5) to live muscle like touch (Shore A 20). Surface microstructure technology is the final, and to me at least, beautifully achieved sense of touch we are all looking for. Cooperation in multi-dimensional signal transduction With a 3-axis motor drive machine, spiral propulsion and some form of radial expansion of the two compound movement speeds can occur; general speeds ranging from 20-80 times per minute are achievable. The Aspects of Temperature: Our semiconductor cooling temperature control module is designed based on deep sea creatures - the specific 10-42℃ internal temperature changes they exhibit - traditional temperature control systems aim only at controlling the 'outside' environment. Media: A pH-sensitive color-changing tint may be achieved using water based lubricants, more expensive models (Bad Dragon's Ika series being a prime example) allowing for this. "I see me, you and them" [@2] at scale Multiple tentacle units can be combined to form a distributed stimulation network through BLE-Mesh. The mobile application enables 16 separate stimulation zones to be programmed, VR equipment providing both access to and near constant interaction with a virtual world. The hardware mechanism ensures that whenever tentacle winding occurs, the corresponding segments all retract simultaneously. The third is enhancement of the experience, mind retraining being one form, physical exercise the other. The octopus tentacle dildo is an instrument for mental and emotional alchemy as well as pure physicality: taking small to large scale conquests (non-invasively) Mainstream penetration type devices are simply not the same. Twining, adsorbing, crawling - all forms of scattered body surface stimulation are what the tentacle device provides. Clinical blood flow rates have been shown to increase by at least 35%, and all signs point to a positive, and to me at least, beautifully human experience of the body and mind. Designing for gender-inclusive interactions Sinnovator's tentacle range is inherently gender neutral; the LGBTQ+ community has embraced it, tearing down the previously held gender boundaries associated with traditional sex toys. The industry average is around 17%, their 2024 user survey showing non-Binary individuals making up a near constant 41% of line use tentacle specifically. To the pot he went, down so deeply into bliss and misery Suction cup strength (mg/cm²) and vibration frequency (Hz) can be controlled externally from within or outside the tentacle itself - fine tuning the various forms of stimulation intensity. The full spectrum allows a safer, more methodical exploration of BDSM; light stroking all the way to near all encompassing bondage. Cultural Metaphors: Posthuman people creating emotional relationships. An anti-anthropocentrism performs in the celebration of the octopus tentacle phallus. You can break the formula of desire according to social control, none human connection being the means to do so. Getting out of a fully formed human identity is what desire seeks. Eco-friendly marketing: 42% of respondents felt tactile devices were generally better for kids' health than traditional thermoplastic based toys, flexible touch technology aligning with all round contemporary sustainability ideals. Telematic Encounters, bionics, materials science and to some degree the Internet of Things (a new kind of pagan) all come together - devices and skins become a private, near perfect, humanly unbounded experience. In conclusion The Octopus Tentacle Dildo, in this light, is not merely a paradigm of non-adult gadgets; it serves as a more philosophical experiment - bodily awareness and some form of intimacy being the primary subjects. A scent is perhaps the wrong analogy used to describe it. What the object represents is the high-water mark of human infatuation with the unknown. A perfume captured in a savoury mouthful, technology and flesh both layering around it, the deep sea untamed power is at least partially contained. Post-human design thinking will characterize this era: bound by neither species nor near-formly defined intimacy. Technology (to some extent) learning the near-perfect poetry of the body, will leave the body itself to all manner of future satisfactions. Choices, small or large, will always be made by the body to follow or redefine what it wants.

Intimacy can be a challenge for two people who are a world away from each other. The latter findings are greatly mediated by technology; devices such as cyberdildonics allowing partners to interact, hour upon hour, regardless of hemisphere. Having said that, it appears there are a lot of options to choose from, each with their own more or less defined traits. As you design a gadget it is important to balance technical fit, some form of utility, and all round comfort - meeting every possible need the gadget can take on; safety and easy use being two of the more primary aspects. Concrete tools: must analyze a number of scenarios in order to pick the correct one Other Preferences and Rituals of Both Parties - both of your more personal tastes and small time habit(s) should influence the design of the remote control dildo, the versatility of the scenario being what you are after: This body-controlled wearable dildo is characterized by a structure of elastic silicone for a near perfect comfortable fit, an incorporated vibrator being the key feature. Vibrating apps can and will change it from a distance. A helpful gesture for sending out SOS signals to long distant partners, hiding (to a point) interactive scenes in daily public life; vibration beat. Yeah, it was the jewel vibrator. Internal: Enable sound vibration both internally and externally through extending the vibration core - taking all forms of internal stimulation to near perfect presentation. One important usage-case: you can talk in depth, private or otherwise, and video chat support can and should be used to at least partially recreate a 'presence'. Technological advancement: Ohmibod's are pushing all of the above, and more. gnostics which are multi-use gadgets New Features: The high configurations may have voice prompt to clap, corus and temperature, add claw. contraction see heat and destined suminex. Some lines of product from Kiiroo have sensors that can pulse a "remote synchronized piston movement" simultaneously with one another to offer a truly life-like experience. Core-selection index between science and user friendliness. cross-platform operable Operating System Adaptation: Get a level of compatibility that lets the device with cross compatibility between two operating systems, so the new system installed does not distortate the device (Bluetooth 5.0 not working VOLTE in Android 13 being a prime example of what should and could be avoided). Beyond network protocol robustness and inherent latency reduction WebRTC provides, global network performance has the potential to surpass response times > 200ms (Lovense style). ByteString faction. Hybrid interactivity hierarchies And from the basic, through and through: One-way operation (vibe mode, regular vibe, vibration adjusting) Sumptuous layer: bioreactive coupling (Lovense Nora style, automatically 'battling' over a grip width) and aural and visual consonance (the speed of embossing matching some spoken cadence). Immersion-layer features include connecting VR devices (haptic feedback being ideal, Pico type headsets) and all forms of data interoperability - heart rate from an Apple Watch to console level experiences. How long you can use the device without recharging it depends on the type of battery. Li-polymer is better, We-Vibe Jive for example lasts 4.5 hours. There is little liquid, and the deivce's magnetic charging interface reduces liquid residue, its IPX7 waterproof lets you enjoy in those wet environments without concern. Energy saving design: Hush 2 utilizes Bluetooth 5.2 low-power technology, reaching a maximum mine power of less than 0.5mAh/D. Lower than Bluetooth 5.0 if I recall correctly. Material and safety ergonomics Medical Material Certification - Priority is placed on ISO10993 biocompatibility testing; phthalates and similar 'dangerous' ingredients are kept to a minimum within silicone materials. Dame Com's Shore A 10 hardness is used as a reference point. The pored structures must comply with ASTM F640; bacteria and simple debris should not accumulate (this is further detailed in Satisfyer Pro 2's patented airway-free technology). Ergonomic parameters An insertion device cannot be too uncomfortable to keep in for longer periods, innovation in this area is required. The lower diameter limit I have set at approximately 1.4-1.7inch. Raised, progressively designed surface textures are part of the final product. The Lovense Ferri is password protected, music compatible, greater than 300gauss magnetic field and smaller than 80g. Adaptation to Environment and Security of Personal Information Data transmission security End to end encrypted solutions (Signal protocol being the prime example) are the best control for readable commands. Some companies are at least attempting to secure the end user, or the 'personal' aspects of a device, to a certain degree. Fine goods will always have to adapt to a level of environment, and to some degree to a 'silent' experience. Je Joue Mimi is a current and/or future direction of all of the above. We-Vibe Sync can come out of the airport security scan without flashing that bright red light; an internal electromagnetic shield is what insulates it from interrupting other electrical devices nearby. A Dimension of it's Own: The pp-Emotional mind Technical specs matter, but an emotional connection should be felt when picking up the product. Create a Ritual, Technology can be easy to feel huge emotions with - converting the more negative alarm reaction into some form of positive energy. Setting an example of ready to wake up and ready to start the day and "GOOD NIGHT" relief, the brain revolving the day. Design a Ritual: Interacting with technology we are naturally embedded in a script of robust tradition and small rituals, coding in certain vibration modes ("Good Morning Wake-up", simple or complex, to Good-night Sleeping) quickly transforms the device from passive to active ritual. Data visualization: Certain apps (Lovense log being one) keep track of these encounters, physical interactions turned to at least partially recorded emotional memory. Negotiating boundary tools: Remote control type devices, coupled with a shared (safe) phrase system, will always be a part of intimacy - and to me, a beautifully humanized form of technology, to all intents and purposes, empowering the intimate relation. In conclusion I have compiled a catalog of faraway dildos as an attempt to provide an overview of what “technologically mediated intimacy” entails in practice. I believe the perfect gadget is one that is user-centered, based on technology that is safe and trustworthy (compatibility + security), and flexible to accommodate any element (form + function). From the very beginning of the buying process, both sides should collaborate in order to come up with a compromise between practicality and sentimentality in the purchase decision. As a result, it may be possible to enable it instead of displace it in that case, with the help of technology.”

The dildo has gone from a novelty item to being a near constant commodity that people turn to for some form of sexual release. This is a clear indication of how sexual health is becoming more important to the average consumer. Balancing price, safety, and in part - enjoyment - is key to staying cost effective. Please use the following as a general guide to help determine your size. Price does not necessarily dictate your size, Beauty-Emily guarantee that you will be satisfied with the fit. To get really good at the IQ tax, understanding a sensible price range is the first step It's targeted at a new demographic; retailing between fifty and one hundred fifty dollars. Not antibacterial certified if I recall correctly, thermoplastic elastomer (TPE), silicone, or PVC are the typical materials used. If you're after something more flexible and long lasting (vibrating being a plus) - medical grade silicone or platinum silicone options are available. $150-$400 range would be my personal recommendation. Some more costly toys over that point use the highest quality control tech, again medical grade silicone. Heat, multiple near constant vibration frequencies, all contribute to what I consider a 'better' using experience. Here's a bit of advice to help keep you out of the pit: Shop warily from companies that don't transparently mark what's inside their products and/or which certifications they hold. Budget friendly options may contain harmful compounds (phthalates, industrial silicone, etc.). Secondly, the materials are risk free to at least partially satisfy the consumer. The materialistic side of things is and always will be, to me at least, a part of human experience. Silicone Material: Platinum silicone, high quality and safe - platinum silicone or high grade medical silicone E.g. - Smooth surface is easily cleaned - High tear resistance, no toxic - No taste or smell ArrayAdapter0 - Never out of shape. Heat resistant, boiling water sterilization is possible. A bit expensive but a great long term economic option, life span of 5 years+ is expected. Certification standards: LFGB(EU), FDA(US). Also referred to as thermoplastic elastomer. Pros: Inexpensive, smooth texture, budget shoppers will find this the best option The cons are short lived (usually no more than a year), must be used with condoms and the previously mentioned porous structure allows for easier spreading of some germs. Important Elements Again glass or stainless steel works for a more modern look, very smooth shiny edges should be avoided. And be extra diligent about not getting anything into your eyes or on your lips/mucous membranes if you mess around with ABS plastic sex toys. Medical silicone takes second place followed by clean TPE, glass/metal and ABS (to a point). The last thing to consider is how big a scientific alternative needs to be to cause minimal damage. Works well for beginners Not Beyond 1.2 inches: 4-5 Inchs Long: Fit for - slim S-Body, As can not harm you;. EXPERTISE AT EXPERT LEVELS The item needs to be at least 5-6 inches long and/or diameter wise, physical or otherwise, to be truly and fully effective. Professional players should have a certain level of length and/or diameter to suit the body, and/or to just 'feel' the size of a well made sex toy. A few things to watch for: 1. Size, 2. Lubrication, 3. Intuition. Stage exploration: begin by something small and gradually grow, the first adaptation. Ergonomic design: A curved design is a more comfortable fit as the curved shape is designed to follow the near perfect natural fit of the body. But equally as impressive as the enhanced performance and low-cost price-tag Vibration indicator: level items on the price range are always the poor quality 3-5 kinds pattern, select man-made removable way, you can battery replacement. Look to see that it’s IPX7 waterproof, feel it in the tub and feel it’s clean. How to Buy and What Happens After the Sale? For respected and reputable sites you encounter online, clearance sales are easily visible. If you want cheap dildos, the first (and often only) place to check are those no-brainer deals from an honest to god reputable online straight supplier. Specific moments of the year you can find great packages on top quality dog lubricants and to a point dildos, through various on-line discount websites, regular promotions or end of year savings. Listening to (or at least following) news of these events is part of the joy of buying them yourself. Online marketplaces: Adult specialty stores have direct physical access to the product, but as previously mentioned a small to moderate markup is the price they charge for that access. Last Remarks When I am shopping for a dildo, one of the main considerations that I take into consideration is the cost! ....and females need to take in consideration that they are using it on the most important part of their body! From miniature models, test using it to the foundation material medical silicone material. As a result, you will be able to 'go faster when it is necessary'. Despite using hunting mindsets all the time, it's important to remember that there are some things that are more important than hunting mindsets, namely physical comfort and feeling comfortable in one's skin. Wouldn't it be better if the product was really outstanding? When you play with this game, it forces you to make a conscious decision about how well you are doing on an ongoing basis.

Halloween is fast approaching, which means millions of social media feeds will once again be filled with ghost stories, costume inspiration and various other 'frightening' fare. But Halloween itself is about much more than just jack-o'-lanterns, specters and goblins. Everyone is aware of Halloween, fewer people however speak to the darker side of the ancient festival: the sexual themes inherent within it. Halloween and sex have a long history together - lusty mythology, trickster gods if you will - the pairing might initially seem a little strange to modern observers. Our approach to this subject will look at the more personal, sexual origins of Halloween; different forms of desired experience being a primary focus. An Untold Story of a Traveling Witch and Her Broom (One of the many classic Halloween related images: a witch on a broomstick.) The association of witches and brooms is based on a more carnal society, something most would not consciously recognize. Early European folklore describes witches using broomsticks to administer some form of hallucinogenic herb into their bodies; flight being the near-perfectly achieved illusion of a reproductive ritual. The bending of the broomstick itself represented (and still does to a point) all those shadowy, private hallucinogenic experiences - female sexual emancipation being one of the end results of this process. Beautiful young women were and are depicted as witches, possessing that all too desired, near-mythical power; the flying witch story and all that it implies, became and remains heavily sexualized. But witches always seem to be searching for the letter "D." The letter "D" here is shorthand for a man's dick. Witches have historically been associated with sexual immorality; consorting with Satan being one of the more well documented forms of this. Beliefs about witches having some form of sexual relation with the devil, or even 'the devil himself', were common in early modern and Medieval Europe. Gaining power through various sexual activities was thought to be part of their practice. From this point of view the sexualization of witchcraft in folklore reflects the great anxiety society felt towards powerful (often women) rebels - radicalism was and is a constant threat, limits being pushed past in every possible way. Sexuality became an important feature of the witch archetype; accusations of bewitching men for sexual gain followed naturally. Even now images of witches and their subsequent clothing are propagated, alluring and to some degree sexual. The Halloween gods love sex Before we can properly know the history of Halloween and all the European customs it originated from, keeping our feet planted in that history is necessary. The Christian Church observed All Hallows' Eve, and what we now call Halloween, as a near perfect transition between seasons. The mythology surrounding Samhain (and to a large extent all subsequent holidays) hinged on the thinning of the veil between living and dead. Deities historically linked to Samhain, or at least the transitional season, are and always will be, to me at least, philosophically and/or literally, sexed and/or fertility based. For example, Molly Gan is a Celtic goddess of death and battle, [30] and a sexual feature is shared by them. When she, as archetype, had intercourse with Cú Chulainn, the hero and warrior, to change the course of events from his original story, she displayed a very feminine understanding - both of power and to some extent transformation - through her sexuality. Simultaneously, fertility and wildness were frequently associated with the Greek mythological god Pan. Over the centuries this image morphed into what we now recognize as the horned god, reveling on Halloween specifically. What do these ancient deities have in common with the modern day practices we call Halloween? This link is the core of the duality experienced at the festival; jubilation of some sort, and the more near constant recognition of the brevity of life. Sexuality itself is an expression of that very thing - vitality, small and large scale, pure or otherwise imagined. Festivity (to me at least) cannot be separated from it. Last remarks There is a sensual history to Halloween that stretches back centuries; the holiday itself is most commonly associated with scary stories and various otherworldly creatures. The specific eroticism of the event evolved historically - witches, gods, or near constant sexual imagery being all part of those representations. Coming together of some form of sexuality, death and a certain type of pre-defined terror is always present. Various sexually loaded mythology surrounding Halloween deities, ancient fertilization rites and more 'lascivious' images of witches coalesce within the fuzziness that the holiday permits. Halloween is not just about costumes and simple parties; reaching into the more personal, near primal life aspects - sexual activity being one of them - and the gradually lengthening nights is what the holiday represents. Remember this as you prepare to dress up and partake in all future celebrations. If you have a little more, go ahead and enjoy yourself further on Halloween Eve. You might just happen upon that harrowingly elusive weird thing with seasonal dildos, pumpkin shaped or otherwise. Eerie extraterrestrial style dildos are at the true intersection of both Halloween and sex. Decorated like a pumpkin skeleton (a near perfect traditional symbol of the holiday) they will always have that quality to them. Silicone dildos will restore their form, new and thrillingly sensory based encounters are what we all long for. Long dormant desires are being reawakened by the holidays; try a pumpkin shaped (or any oddity of all things human) dill or not, but at least for a little while, let the strange, and all too human, beauty of the season fill you.

Dildos have engrossed customers since they first showed up. Men's dildos have evolved from their wooden ancestors to the currently available ultra-realistic silicone and thermoplastic elastomer dildos. Dildos were basic and almost lifeless when created; sexual relief was their only intended purpose. More life-like versions came about, but still held a certain 'grossness' associated with them. Modern materials - TPE if I recall correctly, various forms of high end silicone - have pushed realism so far that confusing a dildo with one's own penis is now a near constant possibility. This has in part made dildos good as emotional platonic partners (along with the pure sex toy aspect). How far does this request go? Questioning this research, I will consider the factors guys select a dildo for. What are the demographic characteristics of men who own dildos? As these data show, men who experience social anxiety while being in solitude A lot of men, especially those experiencing social anxiety or being introverted (spouse loss being one extreme life event) could find some level of comfort with dildos on hand. Overly shy men simply do not have the time or energy to talk to others. The constant, small scale presence of a phallus is a form of relief for them. Meeting new people is draining, and a pre-determined, or at least partially predictable, interaction with a dildo (to me at least) removes that drain. You are no longer bothered by your emotions. Real life interactions are uncontrolled, and to me at least, a phallus (or whatever the object may be) provides a kind of stability men are all looking for. Real men will always be real men, and after all, the world will always be a little too much to deal with. Dudes whose sexual fixations were Fully customizable dildos might appeal to people with more specific fantasies or fetishes. Preserving their own ideas, these guys may go with whatever suits them better. Divorced or elderly guys Harvey has fully embraced this, a dildo-marketing tactic if I recall correctly. Studies say that dildos help older dudes, or at least those recently 're-entering' the dating world, feel more at home. If the near-complete scary aspect of re-establishing some form of romantic partnership is too much to handle, a dildo gives you that desired intimacy and basic companionship; the work and all subsequent heartache of starting over is removed. The Reasons Men Prefer Dildos Upon further investigation three top causes emerged why males use dildos: Psychologically, comfort and to a point all round companionship must come first. Psychological needs are what push many men towards them. Shy, lonely (or having lost someone close), a guy may find himself exposed and vulnerable. Companionship is what he craves but pushing forward into a real person relationship is near impossible. Dildos offer that pre-defined, almost mechanical type of friendliness. Moments of true loneliness can be allayed by having a small physical object to talk to, or at least a partial 'presence'. The phallus itself is a symbol of security, and a woman at least can (and should) feel free to not be committed to a man or any other person, and to all intents and purposes, be safe. Empowerment and the Formation of Your Sexual Identity Men with less mainstream sexual orientations or kinks may feel freer on the phallus to reveal themselves. Some guys are incredibly afraid of being misinterpreted or gossiped about; looking for other guys when seeking something specific with a human partner is a near constant occurrence, and crashing and burning in that quest is all too common. Everyone should have a good time selecting a dildo, body type and various smaller more personal interests can be factored into the equation. Exploring those same fantasies via a dildo is for many the more enjoyable and safe option - live partners simply cannot provide this level of pure, unadulterated exploration. Storage and Streams in the Real World The ease of accessibility to dildos is just one more reason they are used so often. Intimacy is what they offer; the time, near constant effort and all forms of emotional investment required to maintain any 'true' bond is removed. Men leading busy lifestyles, extensive travel for work, or near constant stress may lack the very real stamina to push towards more traditional relationships; using a dildo opens up said universe of options. No STD risk, physical or emotional sacrifices by either party are needed. Using a dildo (to me at least) is a simple, small but all encompassing act of self care. Last Remarks Choosing a dildo presents a human being with various competing behavioral demands - intimacy, emotional regulation, small to medium sexual novelty, and to a point all round world acceptance of self. Dildos are and will always be, to me at least, a very positive and well thought out form of connection. Emotional and/or physical closeness will always be a part of what we as humans seek to define and experience. New technologies and/or all round human connection, to my mind, will always be and remain a part of us.

Many vendors are gearing up for Black Friday by widening their mouths, a near-perfectly acceptable turn-on for both the novice and more seasoned shopper. However, a rising issue of fraud and various forms of scams currently exist within the market; most suppliers do offer good quality products. Buy Dildos from a trustworthy seller to at least ensure some form of quality and subsequent service. Critically analysing these three factors should lead to an informed, safe decision. The goal is website credibility Reddit groups, Trustpilot and more specific dedicated message boards are excellent resources to read what other customers have experienced. Half review platform Trustpilot in particular has a near complete verification process; legitimate reviews written by real customers are the norm. These reviews give a very good indicator of a store's reliability (product and/or service based). A large amount of positive reviews should in every way lead to a more pleasant shopping experience. Protect HTTPS Against Attacks Always verify a website uses the (encrypted) Hypertext Transfer Protocol. A simple padlock icon in the address bar or the 'https://' prefix will do. Encrypting all valuable information - credit card numbers being the prime example - protects the end user from both unauthorized and premeditated scammers. Specific contact information Checking all contact methods is important to trusting a site. Openness and follow through on all things vendor related, is part of a reliable relationship you want to build with the seller. Thoroughly outlined policies Reliable suppliers will at least have some sort of transparent, all encompassing policy. Shipping, returns, and/or any future disputes should all be pre-defined to some degree. Customer service is a part of a business and to a large extent a human interaction. Good or bad, both parties need to at least be able to 'work' together. Can Work With Multiple Payment Methods Reputable providers offer a variety of secure and easy payment options. Vendor involvement (and the more specific case of a vendor accepting only one form of payment, configured to at least allow some sort of dispute initiation) should always be met with a certain degree of caution. Being victim to fraud in this manner would greatly hinder your access to any form of justice. Veracity of the Product The last thing you want is to be the victim of a dildo scam. Legal dealers, at least those currently operating within a 'normal' framework, have documents on hand as proof of being authorized for one or more popular brands. Before buying, check if the shop is an authorized dealer. The homepage of a website is a good place to look for this. Connect with customer support if verification is required - reaping the full benefits of that check is part of the process. Trusted distribution is what you are buying from; genuine products are the end result. Realistic dildos are made from some sort of durable material - TPE, silicone being the most common - and accompanying manufacturer certificates (small or large) extend their potential life span. The service after the sale and the policy Even thinking you've considered everything, there are still so many post-purchase things to be concerned about. Delivery related issues are the least of your worries. Sleeping well from a purchase is a near perfect end state; reliable service and/or policy should always be a part of it... Warranty and/or Returns A decently worded, or at least attempted, warranty (of any length) is the final touch of a truly good deal. Retailers that don't at least partially cover a return are not worth buying from. Simple policy for returns Avoid shopping at stores with confusing return policies. Reputable merchants will generally accept returns of broken or defective products; dildos being the only near-constant exception due to various hygiene concerns. Some companies have a seven day type policy, issues caused by the customer not being covered. Carefully read the more specific return policy details - when the return must be made, keeping the original packing being one of the smaller but important points. Service was able to respond promptly Before you buy, go to the store's customer service department. You Will See How Responsive It Is: Asking an inquiry or sending any sort of request will give you that idea. Trusted stores know this and strive for client satisfaction; quick email, phone, or live chat responses are part of their standard operating procedure. If a retailer doesn't respond to emails, live chats, or ignored phone calls (during business hours at least), post-sale assistance will fall through. Goodbye unhelpful customer care agents. Shopping centers will manage all future complaints. Nice vendors like you just don't need to deal with the 'bad' vendors that once were, and always will be, a part of the retail experience. In conclusion Before choosing a dildo store, take some time to get to know the company itself, their product validity and an overall after-sale service. ML (mental/logical) has a very positive influence on several of these aspects; understanding the three points mentioned above will give you a good, near objective perspective over both reliability of the store and originality of any merchandise they may sell. Black Friday is just around the corner, Christmas shopping - and all that goes with it, snatching the 'best' possible deals - is on our minds. Careful shopping is what I believe will lead you to the ideal dildo (or at least satisfactory use of said dildo) from a reputable vendor. Price range doesn't have to be a factor, but all three previous points should at least be considered.

The global dildo industry has edged and grown exponentially over the past few years. Typical growth would see the value increase from $5,878,000,000 in 2018 to nearly $7,967,000,000 by 2029; a CAGR of 6.89% being the metric used to measure this. Primary drivers of this market growth are technological advancements specific to dildo production, various forms of increased social acceptance of the products themselves, and a more focused approach to all things sexual health. A third, near constant boom in sex toy related markets is the all encompassing quest for some form of happiness. Producers have and are responding to these factors by creating a near infinite array of products to at least partially meet said needs. Sure, more brick-and-mortar dildo shops exist now, but the explosion of websites offering them for sale is what I find more impressive. Pros and cons of each popular purchasing method are all well documented. The buying process itself is what I am most interested in; deciding which (if any) method is best for the end consumer. Helping to answer that question, we have compiled a simple comparison of buying dildos online versus in shop. The Benefits and Drawbacks of Buying Dildos Online Benefits Personal Space & Simple Ease of Use Ordering dildos online is the purest form of this benefit. Puttering on the internet, selecting one or more dildos and having them delivered to your door is perfect in every way I can think of. Never having to "step outside" (literal or figurative) is a large part of the joy I associate with the whole experience. Internet shopping, to me at least, is a necessity. Popular or not, reviews of any and all previously purchased items are a part of the modern day buying process. For some, dildos are a social norm, but some are too embarrassed to buy them. When you shop online, you don't have to worry about this aspect at all. Your information is always protected; the purchase itself is protected - from the moment of payment until actually receiving the item. Credit card billings will only show the name of the business, the type of 'production' is never mentioned, and stealth packaging is used to ensure the courier has no idea what's inside. More variety You have so many more options when buying online. Multiple brands and various dealers offer a near infinite range of styles and all round features. Custom dildos (a near constant online offering) can be pushed to near precise specifications - color, size, shape, anything you want. Fancy ideas can be realized. Global forms of retail have opened up this particular world of brands, small and large, that your local store simply cannot carry. Less expensive Online companies occasionally offer reduced pricing; physical companies charge more due to all the 'admin' type expenses. Large and small scale sales, any form of coupon or discount is a near everyday occurrence in online marketplaces. Better dildos can be purchased at huge discounts. Negative aspects Fake goods: a threat Questionable sites present a real risk. Fake dildos of any quality are now a part of the internet. Counterfeit manufacturers are making dildos that look (to at least some degree) like the real thing. Quality is hit or miss, and to me at least, a decently made dildo should be a priority. Crooked websites and/or owners of them, will always be a danger to the end consumer. Shipment Challenges Shipping might also be a big concern when buying dildos online. International shipments in particular suffer from delays, damages, and even completely lost shipments. In some nations or areas - Brazil being a prime example, Canada to a lesser extent - the consumer must clear customs themselves. Increased customs taxes, the associated paperwork, and various other 'headaches' make the process much more costly and burdensome. Essentiality of buying dildos in person Benefits Prompt assessment of the items The biggest advantage of shopping in an offline store is seeing, touching, and physically assessing the products. A real-life dildo store allows for this; inspecting all features and at least partial specs of the item up close is possible. Touching the more structural parts of the dildo (ads often fail to describe these well) ensures that some form of 'living up to the ad' occurs. Work, simple construction, and near final measurements can all be checked; disappointment or being deceived by poor description is minimized. Quick acquisition Purchasing online removes the near instantaneous acquisition you get in a physical store. Delayed shipment is something you simply never have to worry about again. Quality issues (small or large) can be bargained out of the seller, quickly or otherwise. Bringing the dildo home is the end result you want - rattle it, hold it, and be satisfied. Cons Vertical Strictures Offline stores are limited in both the number of items they can carry and all round inventory. Stock is always a problem; you just can't have everything you want. Increases in price Brick-and-mortar establishments typically have far larger overhead expenses than online retailers. Rent, employee pay, various utilities, and some form of inventory storage make up these overhead costs. Increased prices you pay for in-store purchases are a direct consequence of said overhead. Shopping online, on the other hand, gives the consumer more 'bang for their buck'; more sales are possible and lower prices are the end result. Privacy Obligations Buying at physical businesses is the biggest disadvantage here - remaining anonymous is impossible. Some customers, those who get shy or care what others will think, find the near impossible courage to buy a dildo in person. Taking criticism (of any sort) from close relationships personally is another factor that makes this all the more troubling. Old-fashioned retail simply cannot measure up to the small, yet near perfect, convenience and all round anonymity online shopping provides. In conclusion There are advantages and disadvantages to buying yang both online and in-person. Online shopping has a larger selection, cheaper prices, and most importantly the gift of anonymity; finding the 'perfect' dildo without breaking the bank being one of its primary benefits. Problems such as shipment delays, various forms of damage, and to a point fraud are all possible drawbacks. Going offline you can acquire dildos much faster, instant quality assurance if needed, less (near all round) waiting time. These benefits come at a price - higher prices, near complete removal of selection, and the all too present huge privacy issues. What will work best for you is the true end goal. Weighing pros and cons of either method is part of the process; an enjoyable indulgence should be made, and to me at least, a personal (and small) victory of sorts. Buying yang is a very real and personal experience to both buyer and seller.

Do you feel like you have always wanted a dildo, but never quite being brave enough to get one? The size or weight of the thing itself being the primary deterrent? With the seemingly endless variety available, finding one that works well for you is almost impossible to avoid. Using a smaller, more thin type of dildo can help make the actual experience more manageable; less painful in all personal experiences associated with it. These dildos are so small that the range of people they can be used by is near infinite. An incredibly authentic form of intimacy is still delivered, small as they may be. Easy insertion and near constant maneuvering (active or not) is what I find to be the perfect description of using a slim dildo. Physicality and all that goes with it, is and will always be a part of human experience. Why Is It So Hard to Use Huge Dildos? It is notable that large dildos are among the most popular types of dildo. These can be distinguished by their length, girth, or simply overall size. The potential for wild pleasure and subsequent excitement they provide is real. Not everyone, however, is suited to them: The bulk of the body A large dildo can weigh anywhere from 85 to 110 pounds; material and design being the primary factors. Carrying this much 'baggage' is difficult for some individuals. As a valuable human being you must be protected from a few krangers. An overweight individual may find moving and obtaining the more specific positions they need to achieve, near impossible. Without considerable muscle strength adjusting the dildo between various positions (upright being the worst case) is near constant energy work. Intimacy may still be possible, but the all too present urge to strangle a huge heavy phallus will always be there. Keep If you choose to go with a deluxe display case (airline style if I recall correctly) your dildo will be protected from dust, crush, spotting, flattening etc. Reaching farther and giving it more 'life' is a positive side effect of this type of storage. Smaller or shared apartments will limit where these larger dildos can be installed. Bad roommates are another problem, size and/or weight being a real issue. Storing a giant dilido in a safe, almost unnoticeable place, is and always will be, a personal and/or financially driven concern to me at least. Keep it safe, keep it loved, and/or keep it to yourself. Seriously, who needs a little dildo anyway? A growing number of people are becoming enthusiasts of small dildos. Their comfortable shape and original design play a large part in this. Exploration of these little dildos leads to learning how they improve some form of intimacy. Easy to carry and operate In comparison to larger counterparts, smaller dildos have one of the biggest advantages - ease of carrying, being able to travel with them. Light weight and simple movement are all factors; wearing, using (intactly or otherwise) them is near perfect in every way. Small size is ideal for beginners, less experienced users being able to at least partially satisfy themselves. Physical limitations or elderly people can also benefit from this, unwinding knowing they will never be denied any sort of small but real enjoyment. Simple storage follows easily from all the above. Lightweight cameras are easier to clean, capturing shots becomes less of a pain. Realism has made strides in that personal relationship A dual personality if you will, little dildos feel more 'organic' to fans. Agility and near constant responsiveness are both improved by reducing the weight. Lighter positions can be taken, legs don't tire (to a point), posture and all the small day to day or not so day to day hobbies we enjoy, are all enhanced. Getting around is easier, more intuitive and to me at least, a more complete or 'real' experience of all senses is and always will be, a part of being human. Small or large, we all want to enjoy. After that, financial It is more economical and convenient to use smaller dildos than their larger cousins. Smaller ones are more compact and in every way convenient. Less material is used in the manufacturing process which allows for those lower manufacturing costs; a premium option but at an affordable price is what they offer. Beginners or anyone watching their pennies, the derpy little dildo serves as an excellent entry point - intimate satisfaction without breaking the bank. Trying out various mini dildos is now something possible; perfecting which one you choose will take some (or all) of that trial and error out of the equation. Trying multiple toys of different sizes and forms is a near perfect scenario. Last remarks A little dildo is a good consideration if simplifying the experience is the end goal. Problems that arise from implementing any form of application are to a large extent personal in nature, portability being one such physical limitation. Little dildos are designed for just these types of uses - entry level, portable, simple to use and/or store. Affordability, all round practicality and to some degree style, are all part of what little dildos can provide. Low cost does not mean low value to the end user.

It is clear there are men obsessed with unconventional alien life-forms if you look around you, through social media, movies and TV shows, video games and all sorts of related material. The market craves this realistically presented alien sex toys; realistic being the key word. Aliens dildos are enticing - the possible fulfillment of some men's more specific desires about these 'outsiders' being a large part of it. Cosmic dildos carve out the fanciful aliens we have seen in all forms of media, reaching into that pure whim and near constant craving for the weird. What it is that appeals to men regarding extraterrestrial dildos is the focus of this article. How interested are men in aliens? Discovering new things Aliens are the final frontier of untapped space. Humans have a near built-in thirst for the unknown, popularly and personally defined as such. "Do alien life forms exist?" That is the very first question we ask ourselves (or others). Days, rhythms, aggression towards us or not - all of these follow up questions are part of a more general (to me at least) masculine quest for knowledge. Stories of earlier explorers and adventurers reflect this to some degree. Space age or not, we will always want to know, and/or be, a part of it. Exploration is and always will be, to me, a human quality. Culturally Diverse Elements The media, literature and movies of popular culture have had a huge effect on how people perceive the prospect of life outside of the Earth. Early science fiction novels (HG Wells being a prime example) to the more classic Alien films, aliens have appeared in everything from horrifying to interesting - each with their own particular flavor. These stories not only entertain but inherently intrigue the viewer about some form of the universe. The Alien series, specifically, addresses more sensitive issues; sexuality being one, and various other 'human frailty' type concerns. Delving into other-worldly themes of Na'vi wonder and near cosmic beauty, Avatar's bigger concepts inspired a true awe and near reverence within cinema prazianados. Exploring the Virtual Realm Imagining a life beyond Earth offers an appealing escape from the near constant rigors of day to day existence and all that society pushes upon us. A celestial peek, through extraterrestrial imaginations, is what many men (at least) are currently seeking. Imagining a planet full of aliens fulfills a desire for less complicated, freer, more interdependent world(s) - our own various burdens removed. Are You getting a degree in alien dildos? Come to think of it, the appeal of those alien dildos makes perfect sense: dudes are hardwired to be at least partially intrigued by things they don't understand. Satisfaction of simple or complex curiosity is the primary reason. Treat your natural interest in the universe with some alien dildos where you will feel (to at least partially) unique. Physical and mental expansion is the end result we all want to see. Contact with 'extraterrestrials' (of any and all forms) will always be a part of humanity's evolution. Personalizing a fantasy The most exotic aspect of alien dildos is the ability to manifest your fantasies. All forms of what are termed "mass customization" manufacturing processes never achieved this level of granulation;© Creators can follow a blueprint to create exact copies of ETs, or vice versa, anything the user would like to see realized through media resources and 3D modeling. If complex machinery doesn't grab you, these otherworldly dildos - alien skin colors, extra limbs, near cartoonish features - will surely make that heavenly make-believe come true in your own home. The customizable nature of the alien dildo is what allows the user to fulfill their wildest, personal fantasies. Interplanetary Love: The Mystique Alens fill a specific craving for images of aliens; people may refer to them as 'aliens' or more subtly as some form of inhuman fantasy. This is the protoform of the 'alien' or near non-human fantasies we intend to explore. A safe imagining of the fantastical is what these dildos provide. Contributing to (and being part of) various works of science fiction and all manner of media, the human relationship with aliens (sexual or otherwise) can be pushed and pulled at. Freshly opened, a bottle of wine if you will, has that unique bundle of aesthetic and small philosophical qualities; nonconformist sexual expression being one of them. To sum up Fear of what lies beyond is one of the three reasons why men crave alien penis; primal curiosity being the second; alien-themed memes the third, and very much a part of our current culture, so why not. Appropriately otherworldly, alien dildos satisfy this by opening some sort of portal to the 'secrets' of the universe. Users can customize their experience - physically or otherwise - wherever their hearts desire. These space dildos are not for the average, physical-only lover: deep within their more personal sex fantasy (repeatedly near impossible to describe), people will go to the ends of the cosmos to at least partially realize it. Customizing and experiencing that fantasy is part of the all encompassing joy they seek.