The Beginner’s Guide to Buying a Dildo Online

You've come to the right place! Stepping into the world of dildos is a true journey of self-discovery. Clicking your way to better sex is an exciting prospect. Buying that very first dildo online can feel slightly overwhelming, but worrying about it is completely unnecessary. Everything needed to know - materials, various sizes, finding a more or less 'trustworthy' store - all finds its home within this guide. Fun and in every way a small form of empowerment is what I hope this process brings. Better sex (to all involved) is the end goal.

Understanding Dildo Materials: What's Best for You?

Several factors can affect the overall quality of your dildo material being one of them. Safety, sensation, and subsequent care all play into what makes a "good" dildo. I would like to break down the more common material options into a few simple categories.

Silicone: The Gold Standard

There is a very good reason silicone is the most popular choice; food packaging is a near perfect example of high quality silicone used. FDA-approved silicone specifically for that purpose is non-porous, bacteria cannot be harbored within it (other forms of plastic being the opposite of this). Hypoallergenic, phthalate free, smooth and silky to touch are all positive attributes often associated with this material.

Why It's Great: Extremely safe, easy cleaning, durability, and to a point temperature control are all things you can count on. Warming or cooling a home is one application, adjusting the firmness level of a mattress being another.

Keep In Mind: Water based lubricants only. Long term use of any form of silicone based lubricant will and should not be encouraged as degrading the material is a real concern.

Glass: Elegant and Hygienic

In addition to being beautiful and firm, glass dildos also have the advantage of being extremely hygienic. Made from non-porous borosilicate glass (similar to Pyrex), they are durable; the near perfect non-porous quality allows for safe use across a wide range of temperatures.

Why It's Great: Easily sterilizable and truly non-porous, this material is the ideal choice. Any type of lubricant can be used - restricted only by personal preference. Temperature play is perfect with glass; running it under warm water or chilling it will change the entire experience you receive.

Keep In Mind: Their durability does not mean immunity to breaking (hard surface drops being the primary concern). Complete rigidity is another factor some may find unsuitable.

Metal: Sleek and Substantial

Providing that firm, weighty, sleek experience stainless steel dildos offer is what makes them so alluring. The metal itself has near perfect non-porous properties, food storage grade if you will, germs never take hold.

Why It's Great: No metal parts to break, all around easy cleaning, every form of lubricant works. Weight and fullness (to use a mild term) is a desired end result of using metal dildos.

Keep in Mind: There are many benefits to using metal; rigidity being one of them, and the near perfect ability to conduct heat (hot or cold being a direct result of that). Awareness of how hot/cold the metal gets should always be considered.

What to Avoid: Jelly and PVC

Often dildos are made from some form of plastic, PVC specifically being a common example. Brightly colored, squishy dildo fall into this category. Cheaper is not a bad thing, but porous materials and associated phthalates (a type of harmful chemical) are something to at least partially avoid. Proper cleaning of porous dildos is easier, bacteria being trapped within the 'squishiness' is a concern. Health and safety related choices should be made; silicone, glass, or metal if possible, are all better options.

Finding Your Perfect Size and Shape

As much as size matters, the concept of "perfect" really depends on your personal preference and comfort; your body type being a large part of that.

Let's Talk About Size

When starting out with a dildo, we recommend choosing one that is either average or slightly smaller than average size. Beginners should aim for length somewhere in the two to four inch range, and a circumference similar to that. Finding this 'comfort zone' is the ideal goal. Overwhelm of any sort should be avoided; expanding to larger sizes later on is perfectly fine and expected.

A Shape for Every Desire

Every Dildo has some form of different shape, design, and/or function - all leading to a specific type of (at least partially) desired pleasure.

• Realistic Dildos: Mimicking the near perfect look and feel of a penis, veins and a more defined head are common details. Classic choice if those are the values you place on a dildo.
• G-Spot specific dildos: Upwardly curved tips are the near constant feature of this type, internal orgasms being the end result they are designed to produce.
• Fantasy Dildos: Inspired by mythical creatures or more abstract forms of art, these feature various unique textures, knots, and all around swirls - new and exciting sensations are the end goal.
• Suction Cup Dildos: A strong base that sticks to some sort of flat surface (a shower wall, floor, etc.) makes this type particularly useful; hands free play is the primary benefit they provide. So, you can also choose to buy a suction cup dildo according to your needs.

How would you feel if you could find a shape to suit every single desire you had? What specific stimulation are you looking for? Experience being the end result, I'm sure you have at least partial answers to these questions. Tell me what you want. Targeted pressure? Some form of near or fullness? Narrowing down a choice of dildos (of any type) will require you to at least attempt to answer these things. Full or partial satisfaction is still a valid end point.

Safety First: Playing with Peace of Mind

You should take care of yourself while you're having fun. Remembering a few safety tips will lead to a great experience; playing mindlessly is not the ideal state.

Lubricant is Your Best Friend

Water-based lubricants should always be used liberally, especially with silicone dildos. Reduction of friction through lubrication increases all forms of pleasure, and preventing any sort of discomfort or tearing is a near perfect outcome. There is no true alternative to it - using it is an absolute necessity!

Clean Your Dildos Properly

Keeping your dildo (or any sex toys) clean is one of the more important aspects of overall hygiene. A toy cleaner made for that purpose is ideal, mild unscented soap will do in a pinch. Thorough rinsing, air drying (or any kind of careful drying) is key; storing a wet toy is the last thing you want to do.

Proper Storage

Don't store in direct sunlight. Clean and dry storage is best. A small bag or box works well. Silicone dildos in particular should not touch each other - physical contact over time can and will break down the material.

Tips for Buying a Dildo Online

Online shopping provides you with access to a wide variety of products, all within the comfort of your own home. The following tips will assist you in doing this safely and smartly.

Look for Reputable Stores

Dildos should be body-safe; looking for these specific types of products is the first step. Reviews, detailed product descriptions, and a clear return policy are all indicators of a more 'professional' looking website. Here, i would like to recommed you come to our realdildo shop to have a look. Buying is not a must.

Read the Product Descriptions Carefully

Do not overlook any details in making your decision. The description itself should at least mention the material(s) used, some form of dimensions (length being the most important, width a close second), and any other special characteristics. Pictures can and will mislead you, facts are what you need.

Check Customer Reviews

Reading reviews from actual buyers is extremely valuable. Size, 'feel' (a very personal but important factor) and near complete quality assessments can all be gathered from them. Patterns in the more positive or negative remarks will help guide you.

Your Secret, Our Priority: Discreet Shipping

Feeling private? Most reputable online stores understand this. Plain, unmarked packaging is the norm. Check the website's policy on it if you must - but to all intents and purposes, your (and every buyer's) secret is protected.

Don't Be Afraid to Ask for Help

Contacting the customer service department of many online stores is an option if you have any questions regarding your purchase. Hesitating to reach out is something I personally try not to do; any and all questions should be answered. They are able to assist you in finding the 'perfect' product (to at least somewhat meet your needs), with specific recommendations being a plus.

Conclusion:

Your first dildo is that initial great step towards discovering what makes you happy. Quality materials, the right size/shape (however small or large), and a more or less trustworthy seller realdildo all come into play when making said decision. Years down the line you will thank yourself for it I'm sure. Come and find your favorite dildo here.