Guidance about Choosing A Dildo Size
You're ready to find your perfect match, right? The process of choosing your first dildo, or indeed any subsequent one, is incredibly exciting. So many options exist; figuring out where to start is the more difficult part. How would it feel if finding that perfect dildo was easy? Two things matter: size and some form of shape.
Achieving a near perfect balance between these two is the key to near constant pleasure and all round comfort. This guide details every possible piece of information you could need when choosing both size and (more specific) shape - body type based desires being a large part of what will be covered. Finding the 'best' dildo for yourself is the end goal. Our selections are listed below; taking what is described from the guide, we hope to help narrow down the perfect fit for you.
Finding Your Perfect Dildo Size: It's All About You
In the case of dildos, what is considered "perfect" is purely a matter of personal taste. The right size does not come from seeing it portrayed in a movie, or someone else's preferred liking of it; feeling amazing is the end goal. Let's look at the specific measurements that are important to this process and how finding a sort of comfort zone using them can lead you to that perfect size.
Length: Tip to base is the length you're usually concerned with. Insertable length if possible should be the focus - penetration being the end use. This is the more 'important' length measurement.
Girth (Diameter/Circumference): Measured around the thickest part, girth defines a good deal of that full feeling people seek. A straight across diameter measurement is all that is needed to describe it properly. Fullness, again, is a large part of the perfect experience.

How to Choose Your Starting Size?
Starting with a size that feels approachable, not intimidating, is a great way to get used to a dildo. More comfort will allow you to eventually go up a size if needed.
It is recommended that when learning to use a dildo you choose one with some form of insertable length - 4 to 6 inches being ideal - and a girth somewhere in the 3-4.5 inch range (1-1.5" diameter if you will). Substantial though this may seem, this size provides a near perfect pleasant sensation; overwhelming feelings are completely avoided.
If you are unsure what you will enjoy, what do you do? Using your fingers is the best initial guide. Feeding your senses by running a finger, then two, then three inside the appropriate area will give you at least a rough idea. Personal comfort and/or pleasure can be established through this simple process.
Ready to Go Big Dildo?
Large dildos are incredibly rewarding for more experienced users (fullness and/or stretching being prime examples). Thick and/or long dildos open up many different types of deep stimulation. Listening to your body, proper lubrication and all that goes with it - slow, methodical tries are still the best path to taking that next step. A journey is a part of the experience.
Your Guide to Dildo Size:
Here, i would like to introduce dildo size from some aspects, including description, ideal users, and user reviews from our customers, so that you have a more true knowledge.
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Size/Shape |
Description |
Ideal For |
User Reviews |
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Small Dildo (3-5" insertable) |
What if you could start your journey with total comfort? These dildos are approachable and less intimidating; gentle exploration and simple use are specifically designed to be the end goal. |
Beginners, people with some form of sensitivity, or anyone who wants more clitoral/external stimulation rather than (near) deep penetration. |
"Perfect first toy! Wasn't at all overwhelming to use. Figuring out what I liked took almost no time. Comfortable, easy to handle all around." |
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Medium Dildo (5-7" insertable) |
The popular 'just right' size. A satisfying feeling of fullness and some form of sufficient length for internal stimulation; not too extreme in any way. A true all-rounder. |
A wide range of users, confident beginners up to more experienced players. Solo and/or partner play both benefit from this versatile choice. |
"This is my go-to size. The specific amounts of fullness and near perfect length hit all the smaller to more prominent 'spots' I look for. Incredible satisfaction is the end result!" |
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Large Dildo (7"+ insertable) |
Want to experience impressive depth and some form of stretching? These dildos are specifically designed for those who crave a more substantial, filling sensation. Deep G-spot or cervical type stimulation is the primary focus. |
Experienced users will know what I'm talking about - fullness and length are things they personally enjoy. Exploring all aspects of pure pleasure is what this is meant for. |
"Wow! If you love feeling completely full, this is it. Depth and near constant girth give it that 'game changing' quality I was looking for. Complete and simple satisfaction." |
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