Benefits of Soft Dildos for Beginners & Experts

The squishy nature of dildos is somewhat reminiscent of real human tissue. Because of this, they appeal to both people who are just beginning to use soft dildos and those who have used them for a longer period of time.

We'll talk about comfort. There's an incredibly inviting aspect to these soft dildos. A really comfy couch after a long day comes to mind; perfect in every way. Handling this 'squishy friend' should present no problems. The near complete removal of any form of hurt or simple physical discomfort is what I find so appealing. Letting go and concentrating on the positive is the ideal state.

Can they be used in various ways? Yes! The squishy dildo itself is ready to go with the flow - any position you choose to try will work. As a dancer, having something flexible and (to a point) partner-like is near ideal. The visual component should not be forgotten either. Seeing many of these more realistic looking soft dildos will often lead you to look twice. Playing with them (partner or solo) increases the overall enjoyment; real or otherwise, the near human appearance adds to it.

I would like to add one last thing. Looking good and feeling comfortable are only part of the equation. Precision in at least some form of performance is what I believe these soft dildos can offer. Angles can be adjusted, positions changed, and/or followed through to a certain point. Sweet spots (physical or otherwise) are all part of a new, and to me at least, beautifully human experience of pleasure. Experiment and enjoy.

Are They Good for Beginners?

It is recommended that you use soft dildos if you are a beginner. There is a certain gentleness in their approach. Starting penetration can be begun at your own pace; a relaxed and near stress-free environment is what beginners need. Smaller sizes are also available. Finding this level of usefulness is very important to many beginners.

Finally, trying to combine both (soft dildo and some form of external stimulating device) is a plus. Completing an experience in this way creates that all encompassing feel.

What to Think About Before You Buy a Soft Dildo?

Getting a soft dildo should not be a rushed event. Become at least somewhat of an 'expert' in the field of forensics (personal satisfaction being the end goal). Safe, satisfying, easy to use - these are all factors you want to consider. Going through a simple checklist would be helpful.

The first thing to talk about is composition. This is a extremely important point. Properly working material must be non-porous to the body. Porous materials trap bacteria, effective or not, and are just plain bad for the body. Avoiding any and all porous materials is the best course of action. Your body will thank you; a clean time is what you are after. Soft dildo material should always be checked, safety first.

We'll talk about firmness now. I like soft dildos. Too soft is not good, but firmness (to me at least) should not be totally surrendering, just yielding. Softness and/or firmness of a soft dildo is a part of its identity to me. Healthy and/or pleasurable times can be had with either.

Is it important to you that your hands remain free, so that you can engage in other more creative activities? This is exactly why you should look for a model equipped with some form of suction cup base if that is what you need. There are a number of features within this game that are completely game-changing for solo players. The ability to stick to nearly any flat surface means most, if not all, applications will work. The bathroom, the kitchen - whatever room you feel the 'mood' to go to - can turn into your personal playground; going somewhere specific for pleasure is something you can plan around easily.

Keeping Things Hygienic

There is nothing you can negotiate on when it comes to hygiene. No matter what sex soft dildo you have. Keeping your pleasure safe and satisfying is of utmost importance; making a 'wise investment' in that pleasure is a small but necessary part of aftercare. Choosing a material that is both body safe and non-porous is the first step you will need to take. Easy to clean soft dildos are much safer, all round more enjoyable, than those all too commonly used porous soft dildos - harboring various types of bacteria is near impossible to fully remove.

Warm water is good for rinsing the soft dildo. Anything visible will be washed away.

All surfaces should be cleaned, mild soap or a proper soft dildo cleaner being preferred. Textured areas and/or small crevices must be looked at carefully!

Gently scrub it. A soft cloth or not, take good care of it. Lasting pleasure (of any kind) is worth it.

In order to ensure that it is clean, rinse it again under running water.

Use a towel that won't leave any lint behind when you pat your soft dildo dry. Letting the item completely dry in the open air is also a possibility. We don't want to ruin the 'fun' of bacteria by destroying their home, moisture being the perfect playground for said bacteria.

Now you might be wondering, "Toy cleaner or just soap and water-which one wins?" Both are good options. Easy to clean soft dildos with toy cleaners. Mild soap and water often gives you the same (if not better) results. It's really up to you; clean it properly though.

It's easy to get infected if proper cleaning doesn't take place. Damaging the soft dildo itself is also a concern. Keeping those risks away is what we all want. Cleaning after playing is a small but effective step towards that end. Regular cleaning for frequent players should be scheduled.

Storage and Maintenance For Your Soft Dildos

I would like to suggest storage and all round maintenance be treated as a VIP treatment for your pleasure buddies. Children (and adults) both receive the same level of care - we all want our soft dildos to last.

Getting the most out of a dildo, or any pleasure soft dildo, requires some sort of special bag or container. Always having it 'ready to play' means constant, small time cleaning and/or maintenance.

If you don't want all your soft dildos in one drawer, keep them separate. Dildos in particular should never be stored together. Material and/or chemical reactions are just not worth the end result of a 'bad' or uncleaned soft dildo. Keep your soft dildos clean and happy!

Store them somewhere cool and dry. Stay away from the sun's betraying rays. Very bad for your soft dildo if it's exposed to any form of direct sunlight. Think of it as sunscreen for your favorite soft dildos. Making it last a long time is important, so keeping them out of that kind of exposure is key.

Before you play, make the soft dildo safe to start with. Damage of some sort should be checked - a small tear or near crack can and will grow bigger. Pleasure comes second, safety first.

Don't forget lint and hair. Nothing kills the mood like a fuzzy dildo. Rinsing it or using a true lint free cloth will fix this relatively easily. Looking great and 'ready to go' is important.

I would also like to point out knowing when to say goodbye. Regular checking of the soft dildo (personal or otherwise) is necessary. Retiring a soft dildo is a form of care; old sentimental soft dildos should not be held onto. New soft dildos are and will always be available.

Achieving Orgasms by Using Soft Dildos

Now we have established the more important, near personal, aspects of dildos. Soft dildos in particular are capable of many different types of pleasure and/or orgasms. Softness is only one part of the equation. Sending someone over to O-town is what we all want, and all soft dildos (to me at least) are a part of that. Mind blowing G-spot and/or P-spot type orgasms are the end result of all of it. Soft or hard, dildos are worth it.

You will be glad to know that a soft dildo is your trusted companion if you happen to be looking for that nearly elusive G-spot that seems so difficult to locate. There is a trick to finding one; a curve of some sort carries the near-perfect message, "I have got your back." Gentle, persistent pressure (with a soft curved dildo if possible) can make both your G-spot and to a point any P-spot, feel very good.

Now, just remember to keep it chill. Relaxing is what leads to better orgasms. Breathing, taking small amounts of time - your soft dildo should be the guide to that bliss.

And a pro tip I like to use: mix up the positions and/or movements. A "meh" can absolutely become a "wow." Twisting, tilting, shimmying until you hit that exact sweet spot is perfectly fine. Small shifts are all part of the journey; almost there to fully experiencing an orgasm is still a win for me.

Exploring Anal Play of Soft Dildos

As a result of performing anal play, there is a whole new level of exploration (pleasure being one of the end goals we all seek). This type of play works very well with soft and flexible dildos. Ensuring a safe and/or comfortable experience is something I believe to be an important aspect of my job.

To begin with, it is important to know that the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does. Regardless of how big or small a lube cartridge is, filling it with enough lube is always the priority. Water based products are preferred in my books, checking compatibility with the soft dildo itself being the second step.

It is sincere to say that I feel good about all of this because the material is itself forgiving. What I alluded to earlier, soft dildos minimize nearly all 'harsh' words associated with anal play; feeling (and/or seeing) the small squish of a soft dildo is a near constant delight. Many, if not all, benefits are received by both body and myself.

Starting small is the best way to go if you're new to it and don't know what to expect. A modest sized soft dildo would be ideal. Taking time to do this properly is key; racing against the clock should never be the goal. Larger sizes can and will be tried, gradually, as a form of personal growth.

In addition to the above, I would like to give you a small pro tip: soft dildos are great for preparing yourself for more intense sessions and using any larger soft dildo thereafter. This perhaps is what they are best used for - stretching and in some way relaxing the surrounding muscles.

The method of working up to that 'ideal' size or state you want to be in can be achieved through constant, small time investments with these soft dildos. Patience (of all forms) is the key to achieving near any goal; anal play specifically requires it. Smooth, successful play will always have at least some element of patience built into it.